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Created by: sa_interracialcpl Original Starting post for this thread:
Ok, so I'm borrowing a few blog topics to create an topic that might allow us to have a laugh.. So, you and the Mrs. are out having a laugh and decide to head on over to a swing party you heard about. You get there and the party is hopping and everyone is getting sexed up all over the place. After you both down some liquid courage you jump in and all is well.. Out of the blue the hostess tells everyone, it's time to kick this party up a notch and she turns off all the lights.. Everyone goes back to playing and you are having the best time of your life. Somewhere during play you find yourself getting the most ABSOLUTE off the hook blowjob you've ever had and you bust a nut so hard you forget your own name. Later on you go back to fucking and the lights go on for a break in the action and some refreshments. You look down and you see some guys licking his lips and staring at your erect dick. Do you excuse yourself because of what you think might have just happened or ....... do you thank him? If you picked the second choice, would it cause alarm that you might be a little more in touch with your closet side, or that you're possibly bi? Would you tell your wife?

Created by: sa_interracialcpl
Original Starting post for this thread:

Ok, so I'm borrowing a few blog topics to create an topic that might allow us to have a laugh..
 
So, you and the Mrs. are out having a laugh and decide to head on over to a swing party you heard about. You get there and the party is hopping and everyone is getting sexed up all over the place.

After you both down some liquid courage you jump in and all is well..  Out of the blue the hostess tells everyone, it's time to kick this party up a notch and she turns off all the lights..

Everyone goes back to playing and you are having the best time of your life. Somewhere during play you find yourself getting the most ABSOLUTE off the hook blowjob you've ever had and you bust a nut so hard you forget your own name.

Later on you go back to fucking and the lights go on for a break in the action and some refreshments.

You look down and you see some guys licking his lips and staring at your erect dick. Do you excuse yourself because of what you think might have just happened or .......

do you thank him?

If you picked the second choice, would it cause alarm that you might be a little more in touch with your closet side, or that you're possibly bi?

Would you tell your wife?

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User Details are only visible to members.	Ok, isn't this pretty much on a par with someone having a 'no glove, no love' policy and then having someone else ignore the policy? If you don't communicate your limits, the onus is on you. If someone isn't aware of your limits you can't expect them to observe them. However, a knowing violation is another matter. If the host/hostess communicated "No M/M contact" before turning the lights out, then I'd get angry at the other M! If they didn't, and your limits were violated, I'd seriously reconsider returning to any further parties by that host/hostess. You might want to discuss it with your host/hostess, too. It pretty well hinges on A) what was communicated to you and the others about the blackout, and B) your personal comfort zone. Your host/hostess may just have erroneously assumed that everyone present knew the Blackout rules, whatever they were at that party. Getting a 'surprise' blowjob in the dark from another M doesn't make you gay or bi. Seeking out another M for that blowjob might, however.
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User Details are only visible to members.	"And as previously stated, knowing the common anti-gay sentiments by straight men in the swinging community, what gay or bi-guy would risk an altercation by going down on someone without some nod of approval (no matter how tough they thought they were)." I know of two. On two different occasions the male half of the couple's mouth some how attached itself to my hubby's cock. No one asked or gave permission. It also didn't happen in a dark room or group setting. Carrie
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User Details are only visible to members.	...I went into a forum thread and a hockey game broke out... but seriously folks... This could not happen with us as we get to know play partners before anything happens. We always discuss any boundaries that need to be respected and have an established trust. But even in the wild anonymous sex room orgy crowd this does not make sense for several reasons: - Even in a room with the lights turned out, there is enough ambient light to recognize the gender of someone nearby. - While receiving a blow job, a man touches his fellator with his hands. I can't imagine being sucked without running my hands through her hair, caressing the back of her neck, her shoulders or her breasts. Any guy would know in a second if it was not a woman. - And as previously stated, knowing the common anti-gay sentiments by straight men in the swinging community, what gay or bi-guy would risk an altercation by going down on someone without some nod of approval (no matter how tough they thought they were).
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User Details are only visible to members.	@scottyd27 southpaw or orthodox?
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User Details are only visible to members.	Homecookin, I did box when i was younger but was never really that good at it. I've been in a scrap or two. I'm not the guy that is passive when someone does something to me that they shouldnt' do. as for what i am. you'll probably never know.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Anyhoo in regards to the OP Why wouldn't this guy tell his wife? After all if you are a couple you two should share your feelings between each other. Especially your sexual desires if you are swingers. They should explore each others wants and curiosities. Isn't that half of the fun of being in the lifestyle with a spouse?
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User Details are only visible to members.	It won't work...tried that. Plus I know it's an attempt to censor
Rockville MD			Username hidden (615 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Looks like two groupies have a tag-a-long going from thread to thread talking about two groupies. Who's following who? I can't promise if you ignore them they will go away, but it's a start if you're serious about shaking 'em. Cause from where I'm sitting, it looks a little like the other way around.
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User Details are only visible to members.	You guys are quite entertaining with the exception of the two groupies.
Rockville MD			Username hidden (615 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It is easier to dig if you find the areas with sandy loam :)
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