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TOPIC: What drives us crazy

Created by: Nkenswing Original Starting post for this thread:
According to a survey on eharmony these are the ten things women do that drive men crazy. What do you guys think? 1.You see us as projects you can fix. 2.Your expectations are set by Hollywood and sky high. 3.You're always looking down the road. 4.You use your emotions as a weapon. 5.You have a tendency to be critical. 6.You like to play coy. 7.You fixate on what we’re thinking, when you should be watching what we’re doing. 8.You don’t understand and/or like our need for alone time. 9.You have a complicated set of double standards. 10.You want us to change, and then lose respect for us when we do. How accurate would you say the survey is? I would say at different times with different women they are all true.

Created by: Nkenswing
Original Starting post for this thread:

According to a survey on eharmony these are the ten things women do that drive men crazy. What do you guys think?

1.You see us as projects you can fix.
2.Your expectations are set by Hollywood and sky high.
3.You're always looking down the road.
4.You use your emotions as a weapon.
5.You have a tendency to be critical.
6.You like to play coy.
7.You fixate on what we’re thinking, when you should be watching what we’re doing.
8.You don’t understand and/or like our need for alone time. 
9.You have a complicated set of double standards. 
10.You want us to change, and then lose respect for us when we do. 

How accurate would you say the survey is? I would say at different times with different women they are all true.

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User Details are only visible to members.	"All it takes is a bare boob, and he jumps right out of that nothing box!" Well DUH! Visiting our nothing box doesn't mean we're blind!
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User Details are only visible to members.	He loves having a cocktail and sitting on the patio gazing at the AZ stars while in his nothing box. All it takes is a bare boob, and he jumps right out of that nothing box!
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User Details are only visible to members.	very funny! so true, when my husband has that look I just say, 'hon, are you blank again?' lol, he says, 'yup'. Yes, leave your nothing box at home Nic... ;)
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User Details are only visible to members.	YVW...funny video but when I see you, I leave my nothing box and start thinking about something MUCH more interesting. ;^D
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User Details are only visible to members.	NicAtNight, thank you! Here is the link: h t tp://w w w . youtube . com/watch?v=3XjUFYxSxDk
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User Details are only visible to members.	WOW Greeneyes...just WOW! sorry, collecting my thoughts....you can post a link by leaving a space between some letters such as ww w do t i want to meet greenyes do t c om
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User Details are only visible to members.	This thread reminded me of that Dave Chappelle skit.. Lol.. Look up Dave Chappelle - Women Send Confusing Messages To Men on youtube.
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User Details are only visible to members.	It's been said that men marry women hoping that they will never change. While women marry men hoping that they will. Both are unreasonable.
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User Details are only visible to members.	There is a video on YouTube by Mark Gungor about the difference in men and women's brains. It's absolutely right on, accurate and funny as heck. I promise that after watching it, both men and women will "get it", especially the "nothing box". There are short cut versions and longer cut versions. Try and watch the longer version about 13 minutes. You will enjoy it. I wonder if I can post the link here. I'm going to try but it might get deleted. Well, guess we can't post links. I've gone on to watch some of his other videos. Excellent.
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User Details are only visible to members.	you know, there's a nice long list of generalizations like this of what drives us women crazy about the fella's, but I would answer this post like this. 1.You see us as projects you can fix. ...I think I did think that young and in my twenties, but have since changed that to encouraging my husband be the person he really wanted to be and he the same to me. 2.Your expectations are set by Hollywood and sky high. ...My expectations have been high, but so are his. Nothing Hollywood about us tho. 3.You're always looking down the road. ...Omg... I am guilty guilty! But my husband can't see past his nose. Thank God we have each other!! 4.You use your emotions as a weapon. ...I don't like to cry in front of people, but if you make me cry, you better feel bad! Is that the weapon your talking about? 5.You have a tendency to be critical. ...Yea, sometimes I am. Sometimes he is too. That usually needs a nice follow up with communication tho. 6.You like to play coy. ...I really am coy. Unfortunate, but true. I annoy myself with it actually. 7.You fixate on what we’re thinking, when you should be watching what we’re doing. ...Um, yea, I used to think he thought as much as I do. Then I learned early on ...that was a big giant NO! lol. I actually admire that 'sometimes'. Figure it's why I have ulcers and he doesn't. And I do watch 'what' he does, and he has way more time 'to do' without all that thinking ...he doesn't do!! 8.You don’t understand and/or like our need for alone time. ...SO not true for me!!! And I LOVE my own alone time. 9.You have a complicated set of double standards. ...I have the same double standards as he does. That's why we've worked for 23 years. 10.You want us to change, and then lose respect for us when we do. ...hmmm, never had that happen. When my husband changes something I have wished he would, I am very grateful and usually very proud of him. to the OP: Like I said earlier, In my opinion, the only alternative to not being with the opposite sex, is choosing same sex instead. I don't think it's always easy and have said many times in our long years together many things like 'omg, i need to become a lesbian before I die!' and 'omg, you need to marry a man that is as simple as you!' Now we just laugh about it. It would be interesting to see a list of how all our differences (even these) ... enhance your lives! There's pro's and con's to each of them, but I think this list is only seeing the bad side. :(
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