Believe it or not I had a gf ask me about having her bf do that just this afternoon.
I was like, well, you wouldn't have you bf pick out the clothes you wear , why would you want him to pick out the guy you fuck.. The idea of it sounds kind of hot, but without knowing the other male, it would be a no go for me.

Well She on the first question no but to me really would not make a difference on the kissing issue,
second question would be yes but really not into that,
and the third question nope hasn't actually happened as of yet- but have had some ask about it but seem more like a chat fantasy for the husband.........

Yikes.
It sounds like he was the one who wanted to swing not her.

Yikes.
It sounds like he was the one who wanted to swing not her.

"Have any of you been with a couple where they had a new kissing rule?
(As in no kissing on just the mouth)
Does that make a difference? "

Yes we have. Seemed silly but ok whatever, but it didn't end there. The moment my wife grabbed a hold of his dick through his pants in a club the night was over, she had a headache and was spotting. It was ok we said we understood and I got worked over by a horny wife on the way home. BTW her hubby was the one that turned into a stalker of my wife that we had to threaten to call police on.

No kissing rule
* typo

Have any of you been with a couple where they had a new kissing rule?
(As in no kissing on just the mouth)
Does that make a difference?

Have you been with a couple that the husband wants to watch but not participate?

Have you been with a couple to where he arranged everything ( with her approval of course) so you two can surprise her in a fantasy type MMF?

( I am bored today , I figure why not ask some interesting questions)

"Seriously would you want to fuck a woman if she did not reciprocate?"

Now that is a good question I just have not across that problem as of yet?

so cannot answer until then :)

Not really, unfortunately most folks here are into couples and single females. I've been part of a couple that played in the past and there were a few creepy guys out there that would show up to a lot of parties sometimes uninvited and that has really made it difficult for regular normal good guys to get the trust of couples again. It only takes one bad experience for a couple to say no more single guys. My suggestion would be to find yourself an open minded woman who would like to explore her sexuality with you then you could play as a couple. Believe me, it is way easier to play as a couple than a single unless you're a woman. That's just been my experience.

Seriously would you want to fuck a woman if she did not reciprocate? How fun would that be?