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AFT:
"I've NEVER seen a profile that requests a premature ejaculator. "

;-) Well, now. Aren't YOU the poster child for sensitivity and encouragement?
San Luis Obispo CA
 
 
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I avoid the profiles that want the quick load. That's too much pressure!
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I've NEVER seen a profile that requests a premature ejaculator.
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I have had this a couple happen to me, to where my wife has gone several time and I have not gone once. I thing I have learn so far with my wife is if we do it doggy style, give it about 2 minutes and I will be done.
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Just fake it...
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Personally, I like reduced sensitivity. It is an issue when using condoms, though. I would think that cutting back on sex and masturbation would help. It seems that the treatment would be worse than the original problem, though. :-)

The joy is in the journey and not the destination. But, the destination is a joyful place, too.
Cleveland OH
 
 
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@Sweet - I've heard that, never really read about it. I've ALWAYS been about the pleasure - her pleasure is always mine!

Thanks
Amherst OH
 
 
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Tantra teaches us that pleasure(not orgasm) should be our goal.
New Orleans LA
 
 
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@WNC - That's always been my CW - Go longer, no cum = happy partner. I enjoy the hell out sex cum or no cum, but this lady seems to have an issue with it. We've even discussed it as "just the way it is". Maybe we need a code word for when she's had enough...LOL "Flugelhorn"

@kind - I'm doing that now and will continue until things change(might/might not).

Problem was for 20 years the Mrs was a one and done...when I had one, she was done! LOL So I learned control to prolong my play time. How many times did I hear, "you can finish now - 5 minutes in - Ugh!"

Thanks for your input (that's what she said! LOL)
Amherst OH
 
 
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Welcome to the forums itsbeen20yrs! :)

I've seen this in threads before and many women have said if they just knew that might happen they wouldn't have taken it personally. So perhaps you should be honest with them beforehand, which might also take the pressure off you too. Some women may not like that, but better to find that out before then after. (jmo) :)
Kunkletown PA
 
 
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