I don't think this guy would make a good dom. A dom/domme is in control but they take this control very seriously and with respectful humility. They are there to push their sub's boundaries to help them grow, not to cause physical harm to their bodies. If any dom were to tell me or brag about doing damage to another woman's body and implying he wanted to do this to my body I'd get very domme very quickly lol. No, he is an asshole. Doms/dommes are not assholes.

Jewel isn't that the truth? Thats what really jumped out at me. I said aloud "he is bragging that he injured his wife's body for God's sakes?" I mean wow...that says a whole bunch about him as a human being. If he takes pride in hurting his wife how much will he give a shit about hurting my body?

I'm so big I stretched my wife's cervix having sex. Of course it took 9 months after we had sex for it to happen...

Scott

Yeah, its confirmed. He is an asshole. What man that calls himself a man brags about damaging a woman's body anyways? I mean what a fucking prick. I literally HURT my wife because of my massive donkey cock. Bite me.

now that you put it that way. don't blame you for not wanting to see them again.

hopefully you can find a couple who can just have fun and not stuck on ones self

I agree - depends on how he said it. If he said in a way that was meant to put down you, then he's an ass and you should move on. Based on what you've said it sounds like he was an ass.

Scott

well i have never asked such a question but my wife has spoke to the wife of other couples and out of the people we have had fun with i guess about a 1/4 of the women tell her they are sore when she has asked how they are.

to answer the original question maybe he has had others tell him they were sore and was just genuinely concerned that he may have caused her to be sore.

as said before it depends on how he came across as being smug and boastful or what.

Pussy you are right....I suppose it depends on how he said it, the tone used and so forth. For instance, if I had a night of really rough play or roleplay I would appreciate a man asking about me and how I am doing. But from the original poster's comments it sounds like he was implying that his cock is massive and she must be sore. But again, I suppose you would have to have been there to see the entire context of the conversation and the tone of his voice to really know. But snap, if you have to do this much pondering about a couple its usually best to move on lol. If I'm not fantasizing about fucking you I'm spending too much energy on a hobby lmao. Shell

"Since we are both very new to this, is that question acceptable to ask another man about his wife the next day?"

Yes....after a full swap I don't see why you'd feel uncomfortable with a question like this.

I would have come back with something witty like "why would she be sore, her dildo is bigger than you and she never complains about him."
But thats just me. LOL.