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If I'm not mistaken, sabrinaslv is the same person with whom I had an exchange about women who are overweight, thus needing to work harder at being noticed or some shit like that, can't recall exactly. Obviously, I disagreed with that generalization.

On this one however, overall, I agree. In our experience, majority of the SM males that we've turned down was specifically due to the lack of their pickiness (I know not a word). Very very few came across as picky.

Should they be picky? I think that EVERYBODY should be picky. This isn't a charity thing, this is a fantasy fulfillment thing.

Just as an FYI- I'm fairly certain that there are just as many couples who are not picky.

p.s. that whole quality male thing is ridiculous, WTF? what are you, a designer outfit that was put together well? You might be quality to some, to others not so much. You're human, that whole quality thing objectifies you, can't you see that? it's a ridiculous description, and demeaning I might add.

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Sorry BT, it was a joke directed at the author of the "NO BLACK MALES" thread in the Open Forum

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"I think it's easy to weed out the shitty single males from the god ones. "

I dunno. Some of those god ones can be pretty shitty too. Depends on how they want you to show worship.

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BT - I've often wondered....is an Asshat:

a. An ass shaped hat one wears on their head. 2. A hat shaped so it may be worn upon one's ass?

Just curious so when I want to become one, I can get the right kind...LOL

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Nic, black or white, our "class" does bring it on ourselves. The asshats actually make it easier for the semi and non-asshats.

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Unless you are a black male from Cali

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There's a difference between being picky and being an arrogant prick. Picky's not a bad thing for anyone.

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All generalizations are false, including this one.

~Mark Twain

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You asserted that single man can't be picky. That is simply untrue. I am not talking percentages, I am simply stating that you are making a generalization. Anyone can be picky and I would hope everyone is. ====================================

As a generalization (i.e. a general rule) she is correct. Of course there are exceptions. Generalizing is not a bad thing and true in this activity.

We rarely had single males no show on us. I can only recall one and he was one of the first we ever planned to meet. I think it's easy to weed out the shitty single males from the god ones. We had several couples back out over the years. Usually, some lame excuse was given.

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personally I think we all get to be picky. There have been as many times that we haven't played with a couple because my husband wasn't attracted to the woman as there were because I wasn't attracted to the man. For us Single Males, while hard to find one I like are actually easier since only I have to find him attractive lol. All my husband cares about is how the SM is going to treat me and that he isn't a jerk, since I'm not attracted to jerks it works out well.

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