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*I hope nobody here minds if I speak some truth.......**

Truth?

.**Everybody loves single men, except of course jealous husbands who perhaps are not well endowed or suffer for ED. **

Have you conducted empirical research and concluded that majority of the human population on earth that swings is as you described in your sentence above?

1- No, not everybody loves single men. Plenty of couples that aren't interested in singles altogether, men or women.

**We all know all women want them**

What we all know, are generalizations when we see them.

**but are they allowed to have them.....**

Not all married couples live by the same rules. Perhaps that's your experience, clearly not the case for all. In our marriage there is no such thing as "allowed." We're adults, not each other keepers.

**Personalty I wished more people would block me. It would make shuffling through all the rubbage so much easier. **

You don't need for others to block you, you can just as easily block others.

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Gidg, I learned very quickly not to take anything personally. This is about attraction first, the rest comes later if given the opportunity.

I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but those who do enjoy it, drink deeply!

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Thanks itsbeen....and don't take it personally, they are doing you a favor......ummmm and yes indeed...it is one hell of ride for sure.

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Gidge - you are spreading your fora wings, nice!

We just go with what we have and enjoy the ride. Blocked or not, it's just about some fun, mostly for the "hers". That's just the way I roll.

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I hope nobody here minds if I speak some truth........Everybody loves single men, except of course jealous husbands who perhaps are not well endowed or suffer for ED. We all know all women want them, but are they allowed to have them.....well if they are married to those listed above, most likely not. So for all you wonderful single men out there, and yes you know who you are...Nic for one......xxoo...who cares if your blocked. Personalty I wished more people would block me. It would make shuffling through all the rubbage so much easier.

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thanks Nic.

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We brought a single male friend of Mrs VA's to the party on Saturday. I admit I barely saw him as he arrived a little late and I spent most of the party "busy" - but I know he had a good time and besides his guaranteed action with Mrs. VA, he got at least one other. He seems well liked and he will be invited to our future parties for sure.

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Beautifully articulated as always Gina.

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Wolf, while we have experienced that in clubs, those are the sm's that I will ignore or say no to. And I remember one pushy guy like that who would stalk me whenever my husband would go get us a drink, or whatever. I said, finally, I am not interested and he accused me of being racist. I just shook my head, b/c only a few moments before that, I had been surrounded by a sexy group of single males who I was VERY attracted to, and we all flirted and they joked around w/ my husband and we had a good time. Any time there is something "sneaky" about an approach, it's a warning. And it is unattractive as hell. I had opportunity on another occasion at the same club (this was in Vegas, where we WILL go again and again, it's a fun place) to actually explain it to a single male who was kind of new to swinging. He'd approach, again, when Husband walked away. I told him that he would have a lot more luck if he complimented me in FRONT of my husband, as that was the whole point. He finally got the point, but I wasn't attracted to him. I don't like "students." He was, however, able to use this new found knowlege to go on and have a good time with another couple. bully for him, and was glad to have helped.

That said, we have had some WONDERFUL experiences with single males. They have been memorable and exciting and fulfilling, and even friendly! :) It's best to keep a sense of humor, and not to take things so seriously. Until it's time to take things seriously;) The best guys have a good rapport with my husband and a mutual respect, but the focus is mostly on me. Lucky me! Flirting, compliments going both ways (personal ones, and then the ones where they may say, "your wife is stunning." or such. My husband and I are a team. You cannot split us and it's insulting if you try. So, rapport with him, flirting and attention to me (in front of him and also personally), ability to have a conversation with us both. And yes, I will be able to and encouraged to enjoy a single male alone sometimes too. that's a nice perk. And husband will even cook us all breakfast, if that's the case, or get us a drink. He is NOT a cuckhold husband. He is, instead, a caring husband who is secure and confident and gets a kick out of me having a good time.

I do find it sad that single males have a bad rap. Some deservedly so, but often enough, some very great guys have to prove themselves before they are even given a chance. It's too bad, but the best of the best shine right through that.

Patience, confidence, respect,mutuality and maturity go far.

Gina

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Moron cock un-blocker.

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