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User Details are only visible to members.	We are single male friendly and yes single guys get a bad rap but as a couple you have to understand why, from our point of view and this is not all single men. We get a lot of emails from single guys and when your first line in the email is wow your wife is hot id like to fuck the shit out of her DELETE or hey what's up DELETE do you as a single male walk in to a bar and see a nice looking girl and your first words are Damm girl your hot want to fuck than why would you disrespect any female with a email saying that on here or we also get the im free during the day ok and why are you not free at night ? that is the problem with the web the best advice I think I can give you is go to the meet and greets or the clubs but be respectful get your face out there as much as possible the more couples see you at different events the more comfortable they will become with seeing you one of the biggest issues with couples in the lifestyle is married men saying there single and for most couples that is a big NO NO by getting out there and being at these events couples may be stand offish at first for that very reason but after seeing you at this event and that event they will be more willing to talk to you also if it doesn't happen so what . We don't play every time we go out we have been to lifestyle club and haven't hooked up so what its no big deal
Ocean City MD			Username hidden (16 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Cpl: Very well put and to the point. Bravo!!
Vineland NJ			Username hidden (726 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If you're a couple who wishes to engage in a MFM 3some, then single males seem like a pretty valuable commodity. Sure, you could pull it off with the male half of another couple, but if the goal is for the woman to have the full attention of 2 dudes, then the female half of the other couple is going to feel left out. I suspect that the only people who treat single males poorly are the couples who are not looking for them. We had our profile closed off to single males for a while but decided to open them so that a few SM's in the forums could check us out and email back and forth. We still get mail from random dudes and we simply delete them with no response since that's what the first line of our profile says we're going to do. Sadly, there were a couple single guys we've received emails from who had great profiles and pics, but we deleted them anyway for the simple fact that they either didn't read our profile or they did and ignored our wishes. Sorry dudes, if you don't respect our boundaries on the web, we can only assume you won't respect them in person either. T
Danville PA			Username hidden (1842 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We've been to many parties and the hosts/co-hosts take care of the party details from check-in, collecting donations, cleanup & security. Why would you expect a SM to "volunteer", would you ask a SF or a couple the same thing? I agree not that many events allow SM's to attend but those that do allow ones that they know and can vouch for. I don't actively seek out SM at a party but if I did I'd feel at ease knowing they passed a pre-screening from the hosts or were personally referred by someone we know.
Visalia CA			Username hidden (7 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If we are at a club to meet single males I want the SM's full attention and not have the club cock blocking him for so called duties. Sentence of the day award. Personally, I think that butterball club owner is an insecure dufus, who enjoys humiliating anyone that appears to him as a challenge. Knowing that he doesn't stand a chance when faced with hot, intelligent, confident people (particularly single males), he does what he can to dehumanize them, by making snide remarks toward them, or trying to demean them. Unfortunately for him, he's a nothing, no one ever heard of him, and clearly majority of the forum regulars can't stand him. Perhaps if he changes his insecure angry attitude people will eventually get over his shit. Somehow though, I doubt it. Throughout the years, pricks like him get shredded to smithereens on these fora, and they eventually leave as they came in.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12279 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have met some very respectful SM's and we have also run in to some not so respectful SM's. But the same can be said for couples. As MrP likes to say to be respected you have to be respectable. If everyone followed those lines we would all get along beautifully but that is the dreamer in me talking. I do have say the comment about the SM's working for the club to gain access is pretty silly. If we are at a club to meet single males I want the SM's full attention and not have the club cock blocking him for so called duties.
New Albany IN			Username hidden (261 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Tim...we finally agree We welcome select single guys not just for tyhe revenue but becuse many of our SL and couples want them. At our place the yearly membership is optional and has it's rewards, but folks can choose to pay by the event as well
Elk Grove Village IL			Username hidden (2597 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I never understood club owners who ban SMs from attending. Seems to me that the point is to make money. If a SM has some money to spend (and they follow the club rules), why in the world would a club owner turn it down? But then again, I've never understood paying $100 in "membership" and door fees just to go to a club. Especially an off-premise club--to me that is a complete and total waste of money. If I'm going to spend that much money, I'll get a hotel room and throw my own party. I've done it several times already and had a great time doing it.
Hunt Valley MD			Username hidden (3556 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Uriah once told me that good single men are in high demand. He's right." Well Luvrman and TT100.... I will agree with that remark, particularly since my Partner is the one who made it, and add to it, that.... not only are 'good experienced single men' in high demand.........but they may become an endangered species with these damn 'Elusive Unicorns' as the LWC's call them that are running around the mythical SLS kingdom eating them for breakfast;) Shelly
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2753 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have a waiting list of guys every major event, I should open a location down there and run a shuttle
Elk Grove Village IL			Username hidden (2597 post)

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