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I just don't get the whole attitude that single males have it tough. Sure, there are clubs that have policies that exclude single males, but that is hardly the only venue for meeting people. I get emails from couples and singles all the time wanting to meet for a drink.

Uriah once told me that good single men are in high demand. He's right.

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" Those who are dicks get treated as such,..."

Maybe that's what they're hoping for!

Silver, I see you've been a member for less than a week. To say you are "never" included in fun is displaying some impatience.

Until you have found some steady playmates, you may go weeks or months between close encounters. At least that's the impression I get.

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If you go strictly by numbers, couples are a dime a dozen as well. Some have great success at meeting others and some don't, the same for SMs. On any given weekend, there are just as many couples not playing with others as there are guys.

My advice? Don't fall into the mindset that you are just another swinging dick hoping to win the lottery. Differentiate yourself from the masses. Make your profile appealing (both the text and the pics), get out to some M&G and let people see you interacting with others like a normal human being, get a cert or two and when you DO get an opportunity to meet with a couple, be respectful to both make and female. Doesn't sound all that difficult, does it?

I would suggest that guys get treated how they deserve. Those who are dicks get treated as such, those who have more to offer get rewarded. Initially you may be judged and lumped in with the former but with patience you will find yourself in demand.

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Just refuse to let the fakes and flakes reflect who you are. Yes, it'll take time to establish yourself, but it won't happen if you "whine" about it not happening.

Visalia CA
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You're cute... with the right attitude, you will be.

Visalia CA
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I was just thinking we need that "like" button :-)

Visalia CA
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double like

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Like!

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I am not going to derail another thread with the whole "who pays" BS, suffice it to say that the classy couples I've met wouldn't dream of expecting any man pay for the privilege of fucking his wife. Mutual respect means they also have too much respect for their wives to prostitute them out.

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I completely agree with Nic that single males have the best opportunity in the LS. I am not playing the SM role now because my partner keeps me real busy, but very rarely did I pay the full cost of the room when I was active in that role.

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