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User Details are only visible to members.	Kind of repeating most things already said. Ive written for years about our single men experiences. As a couple, single men are predominately what we look for. I completely agree that GOOD, REAL, single men are just as much unicorns as single females. I believe that most single men buy into the "get laid tonight" or "there are 200 horny females waiting for your dick right now" advertisements and their social skills go right out the window. The quality of most email we get just plain sucks. One liners with no pics. Why do they even bother? Everything else I think boils down to just plain social anxiety. The THOUGHT of meeting someone online for sex is great! However when it comes time to leave the computer and actually DO it, MOST single men bail. When time after time you get the same cancels, same last minute (grandma in the hospital, stuck at work) excuses, it gets old. When you spend a lot of time chatting and texting, and really looking forward to meeting someone, and they disappear like the others, it gets old. Yes, the number of single guys on these sites far outnumber everyone else, so you would think its a "lottery" But the overwhelming majority use these sites for porn and fantasies, and while many think they want to actually do it, dont have the balls to in reality. We're not super picky. Dont have a list of "requirements" a mile long, and dont expect to have any money spent on us. We just want someone who talks to us like a person, and actually shows up to meet. With that said. I realize I just speak negatively on here. But there are great single guys out there, and yes, we do meet them, and we do play. We have had awesome experiences. But if youre the one guy who legitimately has to cancel on us because you're taking grandma to the hospital. I apologize in advance that you will find yourself blocked next time you sign on. 12 others this year ruined it for you by telling us that.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The single guys we have met have all been polite and have been able to play longer than most of the guys in couples we have played with. So our experience has been good so far.
Terre Haute IN			Username hidden (10 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We actually get ask not to certify them, mostly because who we've played with are all listed as straight and are not ready to come out of the closet.
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (2058 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	cplofun We agree with you about the paid members, we're always a little leery about those who are free members. We have even blocked them for a time because they would email us over and over and never be able to meet. However we do play with a lot of single males and for the most part they have all been gentlemen those that are rude never get to first base. As for verification we never give it out as if the guy is really good she wants him for herself. LOL
Presque Isle WI			Username hidden (182 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I don't ever ask anyone to certify me... they can if they want, or don't if they don't want, but I'm not going to ask. That's just "bad form" as Mr Smee would say ;-)
Visalia CA			Username hidden (4124 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Maybe I'm just a dick, but I put more stock into paid members than I do certs. But this really applies to SMs, SFs and Couples. We've actually only met 1 other couple from this site and that was while living in Cali. Certs never got brought up and I'm not that concerned about us ever getting them. I guess we'll give one out if we're asked to, but I'd never offer that up and I can't really see us ever asking someone to certify us. We're real and we know it. We don't need someone else to verify that. And I'm not saying that free members aren't real or anything. Could be a new member who is trying the place for a little bit to make sure it's worth the money. But if someone's been on here like 5 years and is still free, then we're more likely to pass you by. T
Danville PA			Username hidden (1814 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sweetie, I wasn't sayin' that there aren't quality SMs out there without certs. It is just easier for "some" couples to take that leap of faith on a SM with certs than without. To each his/her own. Just my humble opinion and we all know about opinions. lmao.
Vineland NJ			Username hidden (703 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I've been with uncertified SM's that were magnificent ;)
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12224 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm I hope you are very hungry, you lil' vixen.
Vineland NJ			Username hidden (703 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'd like to make a meal out of a few SM's....just saying!
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13970 post)

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