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I treated a single male very pitifully today. I showed up at his house in nothing but a leather coat and heels, followed him to his room watched as he stripped off his shirt and pants and laid down on the bed. Stripped off my coat, kicked off the heels and lowered myself onto the bed and took his cock into my mouth...

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VA, I'd raise that 40% for couples to at least 60%.

North Syracuse NY
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Toptim

and if the couples aren't flakes the chances they carry too much drama is pretty good.........

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VA.....must agree with the SF, at least based on our personal experience. EVERY ONE we have had any experience with has been exceptionally needy, very insecure, wanted WAY more than just sex, & habitual liars! I tend to believe some of them were using sls as a dating site. Now, I'm sure there's some terrific SFs out there, & I welcome them to disprove our theory! Must admit we have met a couple of crazed SM, but for the most part, our experiences with them have been MUCH better. And, of course, there's some whacked out couples too!

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We need to commission a research committee to find out how accurate you are. I'm thinking you're a lot closer to the mark than people might think. The fake/bs single female is highly underrated, imo. The amount of SF profiles that are really just covers so they can solicit for their websites is ridiculous. Obviously there are plenty of great, legitimate SF's on this site, and in this lifestyle, but when it comes to either this site (or others like it), the amount of porn sites and webcammers who disguise themselves as SF's is just insane.

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In terms of percentage, single females probably rival single males as fakes/flakes/cheaters/whatever.

I'd say in our extremely non-scientific experience.....

40% of couples are bullshit. 80% of single males are bullshit 90% of single females are bullshit.

Our success rate with single anythings is near-zero, outside of meeting them at parties. We've just given up.

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TT......agree!!!

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I know there are a lot of flaky SMs out there.

But I believe that there are just as many flaky SFs and couples out there too.

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Kind of repeating most things already said. Ive written for years about our single men experiences. As a couple, single men are predominately what we look for.

I completely agree that GOOD, REAL, single men are just as much unicorns as single females.

I believe that most single men buy into the "get laid tonight" or "there are 200 horny females waiting for your dick right now" advertisements and their social skills go right out the window.

The quality of most email we get just plain sucks. One liners with no pics. Why do they even bother?

Everything else I think boils down to just plain social anxiety.

The THOUGHT of meeting someone online for sex is great! However when it comes time to leave the computer and actually DO it, MOST single men bail.

When time after time you get the same cancels, same last minute (grandma in the hospital, stuck at work) excuses, it gets old.

When you spend a lot of time chatting and texting, and really looking forward to meeting someone, and they disappear like the others, it gets old.

Yes, the number of single guys on these sites far outnumber everyone else, so you would think its a "lottery" But the overwhelming majority use these sites for porn and fantasies, and while many think they want to actually do it, dont have the balls to in reality.

We're not super picky. Dont have a list of "requirements" a mile long, and dont expect to have any money spent on us. We just want someone who talks to us like a person, and actually shows up to meet.

With that said. I realize I just speak negatively on here. But there are great single guys out there, and yes, we do meet them, and we do play. We have had awesome experiences.

But if youre the one guy who legitimately has to cancel on us because you're taking grandma to the hospital. I apologize in advance that you will find yourself blocked next time you sign on. 12 others this year ruined it for you by telling us that.

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We actually get ask not to certify them, mostly because who we've played with are all listed as straight and are not ready to come out of the closet.

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