Well, I guess the former male half of "Alyssia" will see just how picky, picky women are. He's ventured off on his own (created a paid single male profile behind my back). I, on the other hand am thoroughly enjoying being a picky single female on SLS. WEG! :o) "

You go girl! I'm truly sorry that you were treated that way but very glad that you are strong enough not to put up with it.

AZ, love love love that picture!

Gina (a Packers fan by marriage, but a true one all the same)

So what is wrong with a Picky,Picky Woman those are the type I like, ones that know what they want and when they want it. Also when they are ready to get it I'll be waiting for a hint !

What can we say, it the way of the game. Always has been, always will be. Oh well, still the best game around.

The older I get the more I find out there are no absolutes in life. As soon as I set an absolute... .life proves me wrong.

I understand what you are saying Scorp. I was not clear here. It's not so much of a woman or a couple explaining what they want but more of the otne they take when doing it. I pride myself in being able to read between the lines and can tell when one or both of them have a negative attitude. I've met couples whose ad impressed me that way and neither turned out very well.

Even though your profile gets specific and it does exclude me (which grieves me greatly), it has a good tone that I appreciate.

Oops guys I just realised that this was the Men Forms.

Please forgive me for chatting in your forms :-)

Mrs Voya

"If I'm looking at profiles, the pic catches my eye, but what makes me intrigued is what the guy (or couple, or female) has to say. Words are a turn on to me." Gina you are so right, I love reading profiles it really tells a person or couples personality. Words are what will get me everytime, if you can turn me on without really talking dirty. Hmmm I melt like putty or chocolate :-) I like chatting too if a person can keep up a conversation and make me laugh bonus point for them. Hubby and I once met this couple at a L/S bar. We exchanged Yahoo IM and SLS names and the next time I saw them online I tried chatting and wow it was like pulling teeth and now they are at the bottom of my list LOL I really liked them IRL so I may give them one more chance. Mrs. Voya

I'd have to say that based on a G-rated pic, I'd certainly pass over Gene Simmons and also Ron Jeremy...just not who I think is attractive.

If I'm looking at profiles, the pic catches my eye, but what makes me intrigued is what the guy (or couple, or female) has to say. Words are a turn on to me.

The right words, that is!

Gina

When I see an ad from a woman or couple listing all of the things they require or lists of "you better not be this, and this , and this, I just pass them by, even if I meet their requirements.

Not that I'm God's gift to women but the ones I have met with these types of ads usually make me feel so uncomfortable socially, that I really can't enjoy playing.

I think that maybe they may often repel quality men from answering their ads.