thank you, She. I just type and leave it as it is.

Excellent post Gina :)

oh wow, did the comment I made get taken out of context. Here, slowly, I'll explain what I meant: Do not use the limp dick/ on my period excuse for not being able to enjoy yourself at a party. If you want to play at a party and suffer from limp dick/ on period, there are still other things you can do, if you'd like to, to have fun, give pleasure, etc etc etc. This is the female speaking. The original response was to the guy who just handed over all the fun because he wasn't erect. I said, what's wrong with your mouth and hands? That was directed to the GUY so he could still please the other women. AND it also goes for women on their periods who opt out of doing ANYTHING, yet complain about it. Bottom line: if you want to have fun and play sexually, do so. There are other parts of your body that can give AND receive pleasure besides your genitals. And that goes for males or females. If you're female and you're on your period, what's wrong with having your tits licked and sucked and get off that way? Or if you're a guy and having erection problems that night, don't just STOP and not bring the woman to orgasm. It's not a competition, and you don't have to keep score. You'll be a man held in great regard if you are just honest and yet offer pleasure. Same for women. It doesn't have to be "fair" all the time. Some women like the power/pleasure of giving blow jobs. There's room for everyone in all sorts of scenarios. That's all I meant. Whew. Gina

"I gotta ask was that the male that posted that? B"

No. Female. Maybe I think like a male at times, but my husband rarely posts on here.
Gina.

"Especially if someone is being sarcastic or kidding , or writes long winded, run on sentences like I do :) "

ok I can take a hint , I also have issues with the caps LOL

If I misunderstood anyones posts,

It is very easy to do in the forums.
Especially if someone is being sarcastic or kidding , or writes long winded, run on sentences like I do :)

I am with lost on all her posts,, she just says what I feel. I always go to a meet and greet, dinner, club whatever to have fun,,no fun to stand around and whine, I may not be getting it on but I always have fun meet old and new friends. I expect if my S.O is with me that he will be having fun,,as a matter of fact I like to be the camera girl..!!
If I misunderstood anyones posts,, I apologize.

I have seen it both ways ,
I have seen more on the male side of it though. They usually were dicks long before they were married, in most cases the women who married them didn't realize it until they were like that , until the guy treated them the way they treated everyone else.
or the woman finally opened their eyes...

people either sex Are a lot like leopards they do not change their spots

I have seen woman change once they married a guy.
Not as much men though.
Perhaps that is why some enter the lifestyle.
It makes it easier to deal with such people.

"You have to feel sorry for men married to woman like that"
I feel sorry to very few when it comes to people being married to jerks , assholes , bitches, ( that forbidden four letter word), etc.
Many of these people were like that before they were married , and many overlooked these traits thinking they can "change "
maybe not in all cases but enough that I do not want to hear crying or whining about it