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Created by: sweetjzabelle Original Starting post for this thread:
I am a fem of a cpl and I truly have an oral fetish. I haven't found many men that are able to lay down, relax and let a woman just enjoy THEM. Many times the ones we have contacted seem to think there is something odd about a woman that just wants to explore and experiment on what takes a mans breathe away. My questions are-- Would you meet a cpl that she just wants to give you oral pleasure? Would you feel there was something odd if she didn't want to indulge in penetration with you? Have you ever had a woman that really really just likes to suck dick? Thanks! ~Swt~

Created by: sweetjzabelle
Original Starting post for this thread:

I am a fem of a cpl and I truly have an oral fetish. I haven't found many men that are able to lay down, relax and let a woman just enjoy THEM. Many times the ones we have contacted seem to think there is something odd about a woman that just wants to explore and experiment on what takes a mans breathe away. My questions are--
Would you meet a cpl that she just wants to give you oral pleasure?
Would you feel there was something odd if she didn't want to indulge in penetration with you?
Have you ever had a woman that really really just likes to suck dick?
Thanks! ~Swt~

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User Details are only visible to members.	We were just in St. Louis, MO in August...hhmmmm .....Swt.
Spring TX			Username hidden (1865 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ecpl.. Yes it is selfish in a way. While I understand that many will want to return the favor so to speak, I find the pleasure I get giving to them is more than the pleasure I get if they return the favor.
Spring TX			Username hidden (1865 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sweet, My thoughts are the original question are. I love being pleasured, but I would feel selfish at some point and need to start giving. The best sexual times are when both have the opportunity to give as well as receive. If you only want to give pleasure, and are not willing to let the partner pleasure you, then that is selfish in an odd sort of way. I am personally unfulfilled if I cannot be a giver during our encounter.
Morgantown PA			Username hidden (1404 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sweet, I have the inverse of your problem. I really enjoy receiving oral (big surprise) but it takes me a while to cum that way. I've met some champion head givers, but only two that have been able to consistently bring me to climax. Since I've been on the site, different women have boasted, "oh that won't be a problem, ect..." but I have yet to me one that has actually made me cum from oral. It's not that they give bad head, in fact they usually start off great; but after a while I sense that they get frustrated and loose interest. At that point I usually stop them, and f**k them senseless to reward them for their effort :) To answer your question, I think it would be great to meet someone who was really enthusiastic about their ...craft. Someone who would take their time and who enjoy giving as much as I do receiving. -c
Round Rock TX			Username hidden (233 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Several folks here have said things similar to: " I like getting (or giving) a BJ even if it doesn't lead to sex." Again, I guess I am pretty lucky. Theresa loves doing it so much she will often orgasm while going down on me. For her, giving is getting. Come to think of it, she is the lucky one. :-)
Virginia Beach VA			Username hidden (92 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Once a month for a full week Mr. Sim get's only BJ's and I usually don't require any attention myself at that time of the month...... so, it's all about him during that time and I gladly have fun doing it.
Mountain Ranch CA			Username hidden (8750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Now, I love giving a good bj. But I'm not doing it for hours on end lol. If I am on my monthly Jay gets bj's, and they are awesome. But when I'm not on my monthly I also give bj's, but I love receiving as much as the next girl. So if its your bday I might do something like give you a bj and thats it. Other than that, tell me so I can at least masturbate and get mine too. LOL. Shelly
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think it depends on the guy on what percentage is actually from the physical pleasure and what part from making your partner happy. The "traditional" stereotyped perspective would be mostly from the physical pleasure and only a man that didn't care about the female would be 100% oriented on the physical and I doubt there are too many of those at 100%.
Mountain Ranch CA			Username hidden (8750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I don't think it should be labeled a matter of control in all situations (at least as it applies to us): ~ It takes two to tango. ~ I would never do anything that I didn't want to. ~ While intercourse is usually preferable, I often make the decision to surprise him. ~ I enjoy doing it. ~ I know he enjoys receiving it. ~ He can always stop me (hasn't happened yet, hehe) ~ Either of us can decide at any point to change to intercourse. Since I enjoy giving it and he enjoys receiving it, neither is being passive. ~ Jen
Moosic PA			Username hidden (1024 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Because it was mentioned earlier in the thread that the man is being passive when in reality he is the one in control.... not her. He allows her to do the BJ and he is getting what he wants.....that doesn't seem passive to me but instead she is the passive one.
Mountain Ranch CA			Username hidden (8750 post)

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