poor thing, you're hanging out with the wrong folks if they are bitching about you being comfortable, sexual and turned on by what everyone apparently agreed to. Sorry I wasn't there to watch, I personally love to watch a man jack off, especially when I get to catch.

Jay and I enjoy mutual masturbation. I not only love watching him, but I use it as a learning technique in giving blow jobs. Since I don't have a penis I watch and pay attention to how he loves himself, and this helps me know what men really like...like I never realized that men go fast, then slow, then fast...helpful information. In regards to the OP's post and the house party. Well, I think some of the women were ignorant. I agree with other posts...had it been a woman doing the same thing she would have received numerous emails requesting her time lol. But because it was a man it was seen as "seedy" I think. Don't worry about it OP. Unfortunately people with issues join the club lol. Its their problem and I wouldn't spend too much time or energy giving a shit what other people think when you were at a party where you go to have sex and have fun. Shelly

"I love watching guys jerk off. I love being watched and if hubby or special friend was sitting back jerking off watching me...it tells me he likes what he sees..and thats a turn on for me."

Rose feels the same way Sassy. :)

The woman that complained was a prude. Plain and simple. One bad apple always spoils the barrel.

A large # of my swing friends specifically request cum shots, which necessarily requires that I masturbate for them. My experience is that more people enjoy watching a man masturbate than those that don't.

I love watching guys jerk off. I love being watched and if hubby or special friend was sitting back jerking off watching me...it tells me he likes what he sees..and thats a turn on for me.

I know there are peeps who don't like to be watched..and peeps who love to watch. Something I think should be discussed and brought up in the 'getting to know you phase.'

Hopefully this will plant a seed for those peeps..and they can make sure to ask or bring it up in conversation before an uncomfortable situation happens.

it certainly is a double standard and i would bet if another lady came over and did the same as you most people would have loved it.

i imagine the lady who complained got the pervy feelin of some guy watchin her and jerkin off in the "real worl", maybe she didn't know u were with the ur wife, who knows.

u will find that there are certainly some folks who are not as open minded as others.. btw, i am interested to see the responses to ur anal stimulation thread..

welcome to the forums, as well!