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"I played college ball and never ever saw any the size some ladies want or are dreaming about."

The only thing wrong with that reasoning, tallperson, is that some men are showers and some men are growers. You probably didn't see your teammates running around with erections in the locker room, so wouldn't know their full size.

Personally, being soft swing, I don't care how large a package a guy has.

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The cock size issue is a big myth/ lie for the most part. I see so may ads / profiles guy must be hing or 9 inches min and photo to prove. I have talked to men in and out of lifestyle and white, black and latino men and for the most part most men say that a big cock is few and far between. Most black men even say tha if you get a black man with more than 7 1/2 inches it would be like the woman finding or striking gold or oil. ladies maybe 2 out of 50 or 100 would be 8 inches or bigger if your lucky. I played college ball and never ever saw any the size some ladies want or are dreaming about. If you are willing to wait along long time ladies you will probably find one.no guarantee you will want the other part of his body. If you just like dreaming keep on dreaming. other wise if you want some soon I would suggest you look at most guys more often even if they are not huge they might be better more complete find.. Maybe Ineed to rewrite my profile and demand something specific of women I guess that is what I might need to do. also ladies bring your measuring device and know the correct way to measure cock size you might have to throw the guy back if he comes up a little short in the cock dept.

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"It is a glaring double standard - guys wouldn't dare to demand big tits on their profile or whatever."

Actually, sabrinasslave, while reviewing profiles, I've seen a lot of profiles that talk about a very strong preference for women with big breasts. Either the female has them and emphasizes them in her/their profile, or they actually say they are looking for women with at least DD cups. It isn't a demand, per se, but it very clearly is their preference.

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I'm going to change a few words in your paragraph, to illustrate the absurdness in it:

Same thing goes for fat women. Who is going to try harder? The fat gal who doesn't get much attention, or the skinny gal who gets many dates and knows many guys are after her. I am not talking about specific fat women, but *in general* the women who get fewer dates are going to try harder. The thin gal being sought after by several men at a time doesn't have to work as hard, no pun intended.

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The point of the OP was the "requirement" a female has for a big cock in some profiles, which is true. It is a glaring double standard - guys wouldn't dare to demand big tits on their profile or whatever. It doesn't make anyone's preferences incorrect, just kinda tacky (and fruitless) to "demand" with proof. Some guys will go for it and some won't.

The reason for the demand for proof is because guys lie about size to get to the meetup, but we've had people lie to us about all sorts of things. If they are going to lie about cock size just to meet you they can also send a pic of someone else's cock to achieve the same end -- meeting the girl and hoping she is horny enough to not notice or care (don't know here what goes on in their head).

But the size thing is usually not brought up by the male in these cases. In fact the discussion is about the topic being brought up by the female.

And as for generalizations, lots of them are true. As I said before, women as a group are more selective in the LS because circumstances dictate that they can, or sometimes even have to be. It is a generalization, but also for the most part true.

Same thing goes for men with large equipment. Who is going to try harder? The guy who knows lots of women are after him or the guy who gets fewer dates? I am not talking about specific men, but *in general* the guy who gets fewer dates is going to try harder for each one. The guy being sought after by several women at a time doesn't have to work as hard, no pun intended.

And as far as brass buzzing, I AM a professional brass player and that is not only not a secret but also sounds strange to me. Sure I have tried it, but get better results with the extra tongue strength I have compared to most guys because of the same background. If it works for you, great, but there are so many other things to do down there that don't require bringing the shop home, so to speak.

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Well said, BigStorm. Unfortunately, the small percentage of size queens sometimes perpetuate the myth that it's all about the cock.

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I guess I was not very good in what I was trying to get across.there is more to me then my dick.I have the most important sex organ of all,I can use it any time I want.that is my brain,it is connected to the rest of my body so I can use my whole body, instead of just one part.I think it works better that way.I don't have a penis envey,I got what I got and thats what got.why wast time on something you can not change,got over that forty years ago.use what you got and if somebody don;t want it thats fine.there are others that will like it and want more of what you got.learn what to do,be clean,be nice,take care of your self and most important act like a decent person with a brain.how hard is that.pretty easy really.........BS

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**but I didn't see too many envious guys.**

Not too many, but there they were ;).

** Just guys lamenting women who want the larger dicks, which is too bad.**

Not really, I just don't understand why it's too bad. I personally, enjoy the hunt by far more than the actual final act. In fact, I'm known for saying that sometimes, the *game* is more enjoyable than the final act so to speak. Why? because the *game* is endless ;).

What I have a problem with is when people toss about generalizations;

She's pretty, so she lays there doing nothing. He'd got a big dick so he acts accordingly. He's black he's got a big dick. She's fat she must be great in bed.

** Some women could use a little variety. **

Right, but is it their decision, their preference or yours? shouldn't we ALL decide what we want. In what way does it parse for someone else to tell me that I can use some variety if all that I want is, blonds? {Just as an example}

**I have had successes with couples not because of my dick, but more for the experience I provide. Hands, lips, tongue, toes (yes toes), and smell go a long way.**

Wonderful, absolutely wonderful, but does that mean that everyone should have the same outlook, mindset, or seek swinging as you do? :)

You are communicating with the female btw!

Nice to meet you.

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"Interesting idea! I wonder if brass players are really good at this with all the practice they've had buzzing their lips."

I played trumpet, sax, trombone, tuba, etc. All brass, woodwind and some strings. It's a lot like that. If your partner is comfortable with guiding your head, all you have to do is park your lips, set your embouchure and perform a mouth-piece warm up.

"That was not fucked up. Follow the thread. The "shorty" comment was about men with large penis envy ;)."

I did follow the thread, but I didn't see too many envious guys. Just guys lamenting women who want the larger dicks, which is too bad. Some women could use a little variety. I have had successes with couples not because of my dick, but more for the experience I provide. Hands, lips, tongue, toes (yes toes), and smell go a long way.

Now, though I can't see your profile, I can see the femme's picture. I must say the butterfly's around her waist are inspired - es belle!

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*a short guy was the only one that has made my wife cum during sex.*

That was not fucked up. Follow the thread. The "shorty" comment was about men with large penis envy ;).

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