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ummm not so secret anymore!

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Yes. They changed my mind too. :-) We've become good but secret friends.

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God! Stormfront? You changed the minds of a racists neonazi couple?

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Honestly Proactive, I love the preferences. We run into people all of the time whose preference we are not. After they meet us, they are after us like white on rice. I wouldn't read too much into the preferences. They are sometimes based on fantasy and sometimes experience. I've found that starting out saying, " I know we're not your preference, but... " and then get them talking, chatting, or texting to break down barriers.

I love breaking the barriers. The look in people's eyes when they see something different or better than what they expect is better than sex sometimes. Ask me about the Stormfront couple sometime later. ;-)

Now, my wife put hung in our profile as a like, but not a must have. If that makes sense. We've played with 5" and 6" guys that were "round the world" types of guys, so the smaller size was OK for them. In our case it was the total experience and not just the penis size. The guys that had the confidence to step to us and know our preferences usually were the good enough in the sack guys.

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its just you Nic ;0

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We are all legends in out own minds. Or maybe that's just me.

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I know right? because morbidly obese was your way to compliment women (eye roll).

You're entitled to an opinion, just not to your facts. And for as long as you realize that clearly those with preferences and demands don't give a shit about it, it's all cool.

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You're right, you never said ugly, here is what you did say:

"I literally read a profile where a morbidly obese female said in order for a single male to even get a reply, he must be in great shape and well hung. Lol. There's nothing wrong with a bbw however, the entire tone of her profile was condescending to men in general. "

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Please, if you don't know a person, and claim that based on their profile they have no reason to be demanding or acting "all that." You are indeed calling them ugly. The reality is that you don't know them, never met them but are basing your judgement on what you see in their photos and read in their profile.

Rejection is painful Proactive, but one would imagine that by a certain age we get over it and are able to move on like adults instead of whine, that others have no reason to have a long list of demands because you think that they shouldn't.

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I refer you to this thread:

FORUMS: General Discussions: Women Talk: Self Esteem

It is when one stops worrying about what others think of them, is when they can claim that their self esteem is healthy.

Your idea, my idea, or Proactive's idea of who should or shouldn't think highly of themselves, is pure non sense that no one should care for. And that is my point.

The fact that Proactive feels that the fat ugly woman with the long list of preferences shouldn't have one because in his opinion, she's simply not hot enough, is pure crap.

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