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Simba,

Maybe that's why I take offense when a profile states organ size as a requirement, instead of a preference. To reduce a person to a specific physical requirement of genitalia size seems extremely shallow and rude. -Mr. Fun ps: It's been a long time since I last looked at your pics. They are great and you look terrific.

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I think that would depend on whether you are looking for friends or just a playmate.

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"I wouldn't be offended to read "big boobs & tight pussy" requirements in others profiles."

But would you be interested in contacting them, or would you feel that person was extremely shallow? Wouldn't their requirement reduce women to being a life support system for their pussy and boobs?

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Jim, I agree with your wife. I tried one at 8.25 inches, had the same crampy feeling I get after an pelvic exam. Not Pleasing! Viki

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First of all, there is a huge difference between a preference and saying a person must be a certain way or don't bother to contact someone. Rarely is penis size stated as a preference. It is typically have a big one or don't bother. I am slightly larger than average and I still find it extremely rude.

But, for the sake of argument, let's stick with the preference aspect of the size issue.

We all have preferences. All men prefer a woman who has the perfect fitting pussy with great muscle control. We especially prefer one who can milk your cock solely with her pussy muscles enough to make you cum (Mrs. Fun is one who can).

When we find a woman who has the perfect pussy it is like hitting the bonus round. We prefer it, but we don't say it because we ALL know how it would sound. Besides, isn't there SO MUCH MORE that makes a woman a beautiful, sexy, great lover?

I challenge any man here that thinks it is simply a preference like tall, petite, HWP, BBW, long hair, short hair, blonde, redhead . . . to put your profile where your mouth is and come out and say your preference about a woman's pussy tightness in your profile and leave it there. Saying you like all pussies regardless of tightness does not count. (Free member profiles or profiles created after June 17 do not count.)

If you have enough courage to stand by your convictions, I will publicly admit I am wrong. I will retract my original opinion as baseless and continually cite your profile as proof that there is no double standard -- men can state their preference in pussy size on equal footing with women.

Any takers? -Mr. Fun

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Mrs. Valovers says that size DOES matter. Anything over 7 inches is too big.

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I wasn't going to ring in on this deadhorse issue but decided after reading the comments this just wasn't another attack on ladies for expressing what they want.

personally I really crave a woman who isn't the bump on a log, non-vocal, non self-satisfying type. meaning i prefer women who state what they want.

As for size...my stat is a guess from my wife. In the past I have been too big for some and for others it wouldn't have mattered if I had a third quad down there.

But the statement about 75% mental is pretty accurate. The mind is an extremely powerful and elite weapon. If we as humans could develop or train ourselves to use more of our brain capacities we could heal ourselves. The same mental prowess/awareness comes into with bi-sexual folks....and the same double standards as well. Don't believe me. Next time you have sex set it up so no hands are used, all hair is tied back and you are blind folded(no peaking) and then try to figure out(after its over) how you knew that it was a lady or a man(if that's your thing) down there. DO NOT rely on the fact you saw them before being blind folded, that is is your spouse/partner, or any discussion/voices. Just focus strictly on the physical aspects. I could say more but that is a different thread.

Reality is, each to their own. Many of us are here for the fantasy fullfillment and others are here for the commaderie and the sex. Whatever it is brought you here, keeps you here, or makes you leave. You are entitled to your desires. But the double standards shit is getting old in my own personal opinion.

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i agree with you xray, if I read a prof that says "she wants hung men x inches or more" I make a note and write em off, its the man not the meat, that makes a lover!

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Xray you are certainly wrong (in my case) about the pelvic bone hitting the clit to reach orgasm. The fastest way for me to reach orgasm is in the missionary position and I prefer men with extra length because as they slide it in and out it slides back and forth directly on top of the clit and they never slip out of the vagina turning the process...... a guy that is short on length can't slide out that far without him slipping out of the vagina every time.

Another favorite of mine is spoon sex where we are laying side by side and a man of average length..... again will keep slipping out because of the distance created in that position (yes my ass is in the way). About the only position that it doesn't seem to matter on a man's length or girth is doggie style. That position seems to work for all. So, I can certainly see why women prefer men with extra length. However, girth is just the fact that the more stretched the nerves are down there the more sensitive they seem to become.

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I have to say...this is reaching far. If it's a fantasy...please note it where it should be. I've learned that truly size does not matter. My hubbie is well endowed but, a bigger cock every now and then is nice. But to say...the average guy shouldn't bother....We might as well take out 50% of women. As few select are perfect. In the swinger realm women have a lot of power....Ladies don't abuse it.

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