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I have the smallest prick of any adult male I have ever seen. I could give a shit if a woman wants a monster cock. I just don't respond to her. Why should I take it personally? Would you have sex with a woman that weighed 400 pounds? I'm also fat. What about all those people who want HWP? Again, I don't respond to them. I believe this site is for finding people you want to have fun with. Plain and simple. The only thing I find to bitch about is those who don't respond at all or worse, start a conversation and then disappear. Courtesy and respect, not snide comments about vaginal capacity (btw it's possible for a woman to make herself very tight or accommodate a horse - or a baby's head - so her size has nothing to do with it). Those who complain about others' preferences seem to lack confidence in their own qualities.

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thanks j&l for telling it like it is ,,,thankyou.

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J&L and Gina: Thanks for your kind words regarding our situation. I know that there are fakes and flakes on here. But there are so many more real people; people who are strong, caring and secure in their relationships and that is why and how they can swing.

There are some folks who are fixated on a large penis. You will hear on here things like, "I have a medium one at home, so why would I want that when I swing." And if you are going to watch another guy giving it to your woman, many guys want to see a big one doing the job.

I don't think there is anything wrong with this. But I do think the folks that put this as a criteria are missing a lot. It would be just like as mentioned many times before if one insisted that the woman must have large breasts, or has to be blonde, or has to be black.

So here is my plug for the medium guy... (pun intended)... When I am in a lady, if the position is right, I usually can just tap her cervix. So they usually get a sense of depth but without pain. I am able to pound her clitoral area with the pubic bone or hit her thighs and buttocks hard if taking her from behind. My cock when it is erect is really hard. It swells a bit more at orgasm. The ladies can feel this and like it. I don't have to leave the last two inches out in the cold!

I am not knocking the guys with big dicks. I know most of them are proud of what they have. But in my observations, big cocks do not get as hard as medium ones. And I have no problem performing in the same room as a guy with a monster dick, because I am confident in what I do. My experience has been that the ladies I have been with are happy and satisfied and would come back for more.

So isn't that one of the spices of life in the swing world? Sure you can ask, order, request the big one. But if that is all you want, your eating the same dinner every night. There is so much more to making sex hot than just this one factor.

Back to the big breasted woman analogy... So if you saw a petite lady at a swing party with a nice shape and small perky breasts you wouldn't want her? You'd rather have somebody with big floppy sloppy boobs that hang at her sides when she is on her back, and the nipples and areolas are all stretched out. The idea of big breasts is one thing, the reality of them may be another.

Big cock worshipping will never leave this site. Hell there are multiple threads about BBC and truly that is all that some folks want. If so go for it. But by limiting your field, you may miss many other good times, too.

Gina, now when are you guys coming to SC???

Love to all,

Mr. JM

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Jack and Michelle, We hope the best for both of you. While all of us indulge our fantasies with others, real life continues on and gives us real meaning in our marriages. Thank you for the difficult task of sharing this life altering event with all of us and know that even in a community of strangers, it's possible to have concern and even tears for those we've never met. J+L

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JackMichele, thank you for sharing that with us...you two are amazing. I'm like others on here, with the thought that there are some outstanding and uplifting people on here, fighting, overcoming, etc. And to top it off, we can all talk about anything. This is a nice, tight, group of people and I'm happy to be among them.

Keep up that healing.

Meanwhile...the only cock I don't like is an unclean one. Size, and here goes that cliche, doesn't matter. Why are cliches thus? Because they are commonly true.

Gina

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its hard to find a soul mate ,and you have , cherish it my thoughts are with you both

Kingston TN
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Jack and Michelle: Thoughts and prayers are on their way to you from a total stranger.

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The strength and character of the women on this site never ceases to amaze me. And kudos to you as well sir, your dedication and love for her shines through every post.

I will continue to send positive vibes your way.

A

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Thanks Gurls for telling folks about this. It sounds like a freak accident. But it can happen to anybody. Mrs. JM simply cracked her own neck too hard. She has always cracked her neck; once or twice a day, without ever having an issue or warning whatsoever. This time her back was hurting a bit and she cracked her neck a bit harder than usual. Immediately the right side of her body starting tingling and her speech was slurred. She got nauseous within a few minutes. Within 20 minutes she was having what I would call a seizure.

We EMS'd her to the hospital. They sent the Chaplain in to see me. They told me it looked like my wife would die within the next few hours. They were not sure what was going on but they weren't certain the neck cracking had done it. I insisted that they look at the brain stem as I figured the damage was in that area. They did more imaging and found that Mrs. JM had dissected the basilar artery in the brain stem. This slight tearing of the inner wall allowed blood to pool and then clot. The clots then went up into the center of the brain... to a place that is not directly accessible by surgery.

Our only hope was to helicopter her to a medical university hospital 200 miles away where they could do an angioplast procedure much like what is done nowadays for heart work... but in case they would go to the brain and blast the clots and suck them out.

There was no room for me in the chopper. I went by car. As I arrived, they completed the procedure. She had been without full blood and oxygen to the brain for almost 9 hours. But she made it. The recovery is an even longer story. Suffice it to say that for a month she could not move anything on her left side. She is walking today. This beautiful little wife of mine has been fighting this as hard as can be and is trying to get everything back.

As I had been driving to that hospital 200 miles away, I did not know if she would live. At the first hospital they had told me that they had sent three others for the same procedure and only one had survived. I must admit I was feeling desperate about what may become of her and sorry for myself if this ended tragically. For the last 10 years Mrs. JM has been my dream come true. She is absolutely the most perfect mate for me. We are such a good fit in all regards.

In fact, and I hope it is the same for many other couples, our being in the lifestyle is evidence of the solid and damn near perfect relationship we have.

Now let's get back to the discussion here....

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I been thinking about this for a while,it would be about the same as a guy asking for big tits,its a ego thing,it gives you bragging rights,I like big tits,but you can not do any more with them than you can with small ones.medeium is better for me.as long as I can get my lips on the nipples iitttsss gggoooddd...just my thoughts...bububye

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