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"I have been with a few women that I knew I could not satisfy. Had I known beforehand that could have been avoided"

Had you known WHAT beforehand?

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I'm sorry sabrinasslave1 but could you repeat that? I couldn't follow a word of it with that perfect pair of breasts staring at me the whole time.

;^D

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I see nothing wrong with posting what you want. If they sound condescending then some people won't respond including some that fit their criteria. They are limiting themselves, not anyone else.

Yes, it is an incredible double standard, but men outnumber women in the LS 20 or more to 1 so the women can get away with it. I always say they have the upper hand when it comes to choosing fuck buddies, but men can be more selective when it comes to life partners. Good men are very hard to find and a hard cock isn't paying the bills or being a good father.

Also, statistically every single man will experience some form of ED at some point in their life. I have found that the men who are the biggest braggarts about being hard as a rock and are the most outspoken against couples with a male that might have "performance issues" are usually the ones on Viagra or Cialis and can't perform without it. Their egos are "pharmaceutically" inflated.

That said, if you do want to make sure you are not limited by nerves, the pill is not a bad idea to try. A few of them can be had for not much $ online.

RE: size and people being self conscious about it --

I am using myself as an example. I am not more than 6.5" long, so about average, but my gf will get sore after about a half hour of penetration because I am hitting "the end of her" as she puts it (on the inside). The women I have been with value girth much more than length, since being "filled up" is more noticeable with girth. I am fairly thick so we have that covered.

The men she has been with couldn't use that extra length anyway since there is nowhere to put it. While I can thrust my hips into her ass forcefully, getting all of me inside her, a longer guy couldn't do the same. That means I am enjoying her more than a guy with an 8 inch cock and she enjoys the feel of my body hitting hers.

Other women are different of course, but from the women I have talked to length is nowhere near as important as girth. So I have to wonder why well hung has a length requirement instead of a circumference.

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If I see a profile that requires a large cock I assume she has a gaping cavernous cunt so I pass.

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I personally would prefer if the lady wants a certain size then she should make it known. As a male my desire is to please the lady. If I am not equipped to do that it's best to know up front. My wife has been with men both larger and smaller than me and any complaints she has had is not about the size. I have been with a woman or 2 that I knew I could not satisfy. That could have been averted if I had known before hand. There are enough swingers out there to find what we desire.

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The point has been made many times but the bottom line is, each of us is entitled to make our preferences known in whatever fashion we desire and everyone else is free to decide if they want to contact us or not. If a couple's profile offends you, skip it. Simple as that.

But I am curious, if she were smoking hot and she contacted YOU, would you feel the same way? Would you decline based on your previous disgust or could you get past it and TRY to enjoy yourself?

;^D

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Because it boorish and demeaning. Nothing illegal about it of course. I could post that "any single woman better have DD tits and be self-lubricating with a pussy that can squeeze me harder than my hand, and if you take off you wonderbra and you're only packing D's, I'll send you home", and I might get a few responses, but I'm guessing most of the women reading the profile will think that I'm an insensitive pig.

Kingsport TN
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I've seen several profiles with similar language. What's wrong with them clearly stating what they're looking for?

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I read one couples' profile that said (and I'm not kidding), that your cock must be at least 6.5" long, and to please send a photo of it next to something, preferably a ruler. Their profile then proceeded to say if they got together with you and you had lied about your cock, they would get up and leave you with your dick in your hand. They also said to not bother responding if you ever had trouble getting it up, and you'd better be able to get it up again after coming.

Whatever. It was the most jaded, condescending profile I'd ever read.

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