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TOPIC: Male must be well hung - a survey
Created by: FunSinCityCouple
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It's all the result of supply and demand...nothing more. I don't think the women (at least not the majority of them) are trying to be rude at all by stating what their preferences are. The simple truth is that they are selective and picky because they can be.

For every woman who is looking for sex, there are a thousand men...maybe ten thousand! Lol. If the statistics were reversed I can assure you that we men would have a long list of qualifications ourselves that the women would gave to meet.

But alas, nature us what it is, so...

The only advice I have is that us guys will have to do the same thing in this lifestyle to find a partner that a woman would have to do if she wants to be a Navy Seal or a fighter pilot:

To get want you want you'll have to put out ten times the effort and be twice as good as the rest of your all of your competitors!

Just saying....

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This topic has so many variables. Most of my youth I only dated black men and some of them were pretty standard size and some super-sized. When I got married to a white guy some of the women in my family after a few drinks asked" So is he a well hung white"? To shut them up I said the biggest I ever had. Some people do have obvious racial expectations. I do like the FULL filling so thick cocks always stimulate more. Length has only mattered when it hits the back and hurts. My husband is about 7 3/4 and very thick. I never go after a specific size but then I have only once played with a guy that had less then 6". What was very interesting was that during one GB the guys were more concerned with measuring up because one of the guys was almost 11". So I see it as more of a problem with men's self esteem then my requirement.

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My wife has a separate profile on here and in it she states that well endowed is preferred. I am very small at 4.5". Of course she wants something bigger. Most men are larger than me and it doesn't bother me in the least. I love hearing about her experiences.

She didn't place that in her profile to exclude or offend but if she wants a tiny one, she has me.

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I'll echo what Ms. Fancy says.

Have your core SM profile, and create separate couples profiles with each playmate. Its most efficient that way.

BTW, having a large tool is not that uncommon in the LS. You might as well say you have two eyes. Your other attributes will make you stand out from the masses.

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Ditto what the lovely Mrs. Fancy said.

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" I'm not posing as a couple Im talking to a girl but she's not ready yet. "

I saw that you did change your profile, and it does look better. But I would make the separate SM profile and hide the couple profile - this is why:

Even though you clearly say in your new profile that you are waiting for your female friend to jump onboard and you are playing solo now, when people do a search for Couples, they are doing so because they are looking for Couples. When they open your profile and see that it's a SM, you will not be what they are looking for and you will get bypassed. On top of that, those who ARE looking for SM will not find you because you won't come up in a search for SM because you have a COUPLE profile.

Just trying to help!

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dg you are taking a lot for granted thinking that your friend will want to join in playing around. You need to change your profile to a single until she agrees to play. After all profiles can be change at anytime.

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Thanks for the advice, I'll put more effort into my profile, and I'm not posing as a couple Im talking to a girl but she's not ready yet. So to avoid making another profile I thought ahead and will add her when she wants to be on it.

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You're a single male posing as a couple who hasn't had action in a week?

What a shock.

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DG... Your dick size isn't the issue, it's the profile. I agree with everything that PG said and want to add this...

" I'm still looking for my first experience and it's honestly taken longer than I expected. "

This sentence really should go. Again - it's been a week since you joined and it makes you look thirsty. I really hope you weren't planning on making a profile one morning and having a naked woman on your bed that night. And if I open a couple's profile and I see it's a single male, I'm not going to email him, I am going to report him. On top of looking thirsty, you look dishonest. That ain't sexy.

I know you just joined but I don't know if you have lurked at all or know much about SLS. If you are totally new, you may not know that there is generally not a high demand for single men, but there are still a good chunk of couples who may be interested. It may take a while for you to meet someone. Fix up that profile and give it some time. :o)

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