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sa, inter, what i find very odd is ,i have read many profiles ,where couples and singles want only black men , and well hung, for there play. But now after reading these posts on this topic , i now belive that because , i have been seen ,and have ammited to play with and more women of color ,than white. Is the reason why i am blocked and recieve no responces to my profile and so forth. Now many ppl in my area know that i have many inlaws whom are ppl of color, and will not have anything to do with me, how i know this ?. Over heard my nabors taiking on there deck during a party one evening, since then one woman that i was interested in dateing has not chated or responced to a date since. pity i for one do not care what color your skin is, to me it is the person that i care about.,and there actions.

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People love to say that things like this don't exist, but change isn't always for the good. At times it just goes sideways, showing no progress in a positive manner. I will be this shade of mahogany for the rest of my days and it hasn't rubbed off on anyone yet. If I must be judged by my skin tone, been there, done that. What is bothersome is the couples that are color blind and have no problem with being with us are getting the shaft, and not in a good way. Being Ostracized because of my skin tone leaves us somewhat upset and bewildered. Unfortunately, this is still the sad world we live in!

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We had an interesting conversation last night about certifications, and got an earful. We actually now know that couples OFTEN, will not write or accept a cert from interracial couples and black men, due to them being labeled as dirty by other white couples that might be potential playmates.

I wasn't so much shocked by the fact that the behavior exists, but that they openly admitted it. This conversation started because I mentioned how 6degrees of separation can be achieved through searching certifications.

We were no offended in the slightest, but it did validate many of the questions we've had unanswered over the years. The truth can and will set you free!

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Interestingly I (the lady) find quite often that the couples want my man (bbc in the room!) and I'm the afterthought. They often approach him like he a single at parties, and I've had a number of frustrating experiences because I'm a full participant kind of girl and the hubbies are watchers not players. I'm learning we need to feel that out before moving forward to avoid me being a cranky, frustrated woman! Other end of the spectrum is the ladies aren't into black men. Also a reason I appreciate single men, to be honest...they tend to be quite attentive.

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You callous, unmanly brute!

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Neither of us has been told to lose weight, but due to my lack of body hair, I've been informed that my chest wasn't very manly..

I was laughing too hard to have taken her serious, until her husband pulled me aside and said that she was serious, and that I had hurt her feelings by laughing at her and should apologize..

AGAIN, I start laughing uncontrollably.. She had issue with everyone at the party!

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swgoldencouple wow all i can say is wow if someone thinks you average and likes you better when you lose weight, OMG thats nuts, and if anyone would tell my wife that , if my wife was big or little it would not matter, to say "you are ok but lose some weight and we can play" they would be gone from our play list faster then i could say goodbye, someones preference is fine, but to tell someone to lose weight if they want to fuck them is rude and out of line if you ask me

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Some friends of ours have a really cool line in their profile- there's only one race, the human one :)

I cannot tell you how many super hot black ladies I've seen here; lots. When I was married in the 90's I attended Norfolk State University- talk about babe central. However, those were girls. Here they are women-

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Sweettart really nailed this. It is difficult to find people who have both physical and intellectual attributes that are interesting to you. We are selective. It has been difficult but it has also been rewarding.

So, keep looking. The color of a persons skin is not important.

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It's just one more obstacle added to the already difficult process of playing with strangers..

Some can't help but make it an issue, but that's entirely expected!

Many times, preference is just a word to cover something else, many times it's just what it is, preference.

When people single out a specific race, well....they're just fooling you and themselves.

We've actually been known to show more respect for outright racist over those that scream preference.. At least a racist says it to your face regardless the consequences. Closet racist are actually more difficult to deal with in our experiences. And there are a bunch of them!

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