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Did she walk like a woman and talk like a man?

Youngstown OH
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Lola, eh?

L-o-l-a Lo-la?

She didn't nearly break your spine when she squeezed you tight, did she?

Winter Garden FL
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I played with a black girl Saturday night.... lola was awesome and she loved this old white dude :)

Rockport MA
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All people want to be desired whatever race you may be ( even white swingers ) i cherish the differences we have and treat people how i want to be treated .

We enjoy all "nice people"

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I know quite a few.

Winter Garden FL
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I want to be with an african-american woman so bad...anyone know a black girl that likes white dudes

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The Mrs and I don't look at race at all. Ever. But we do look at if they are our "type". I can't speak for others but I am not here to judge or be judge. To each their own and I will respect their preferences. I would hope others would do the same.

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If you don't like black and feel the need to share it on your profile, why not take the time to say, "anything" but black? After all everything else on the planet must be just dandy. Don't be shy about it!

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We are one of those couples some people may not understand. I like women of all color, the wife only likes white men. It's hard to understand what a woman likes. She flirts and teases with all colors out in open, but when it comes right down to the play time, it's white males only. Even between white guys, she'll often choose the one I didnt expect. She doesnt say never on other races, but only not at this time.

This has been a point of minor turbulence for us at times. The male is clearly attracted to her, the wife and I are clearly attracted.. but it cant happen for the one reason. I do have to say that I cant argue with her.. it's her vagina, she can let in or deny whatever she wants and racism cant even be called into play on such a private and personal issue. If she's rascist, then it can certainly be said that it only comes out where her body is concerned, and nowhere else.

Our friends of all colors understand and accept this. We once invited a black couple to a club with us. We were secretly asked if we were sleeping with black people, which I felt a bit uncomfortable being asked since that is certainly nobody else's concern, but no, they were just friends.. and still are some of our best friends. The question was unacceptable... at least in the way it was asked.

On our profile we state she doesnt play outside her race. We have been turned down because I am white, I dont scream rascism, I accept it as their preferance and I honor it. Thus far, this has always been the case either way. Everyone involved has always been accepting of such preferances.

In the end, this is choice. Some people even turn others down based on political views. I once argued politics with a hot wife, then we went upstairs and had hot 2 hour makeup sex. Nobody should ever be made to feel uncomfortable. My wife doesnt say never, but if you make her feel bad because you are another race and thats why she wont play with you... then you will never have her rather than a 'maybe later'.<br /> <br /> And most of all, you should be honest to everyone. Dont be afraid to tell the truth if they ask why you wont play with them. Dont be afraid to accept the truth if you are turned down and ask why. We know from experience that even if not sexually attractive, you can still be great friends who like to eat out, go to movies, and party together.

And if the day ever comes where mine changes her mind about going outside her race, there's me and a couple cute Asians ladies waiting for it :-)

One area of concern is when one of the parties in a couple doesnt want their spouse sexing with anyone of a certain race. One hispanic couple, although the wife and I wanted to play, the husband wanted her to only be with Asian or Hispanic. Unfortunately, you have to accept that as if it's the woman that turned you down. They both have to be accepting of you, they are the ones married to each other and you never make waves for them. Let them sort it out on their own and you just back away from the situation.... damn she was hot, but I shook his hand and walked away :-(

It is what it is.

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We have been in the lifestyle for a long time now and have seen the good and bad of the racial sterotypes. Being a white couple from a rather segrgated area of the mid-west, when we moved to the NYC area it was an eye opening experience for sure. We realized very quickly that some people just aren't willing to let go of preconcived notions and stero types and just let the lifestyle be what it is. We have had some of the best experiences with interacial couples and have no hang ups playing outside our race. Honestly as a white man, I get a good deal of flack for being really attracted to black women in general, though I'm not discounting my Asian,Spanish and white girls;sexy knows no color :-). My vanilla friends really don't get it when we have guys nights talking about women and drinking and I'm all about the sexy colored girls. To each their own, people are attracted to what they are attacted too, just don't be a douche about it.

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