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May i answer this one PLEASE!!!

How come interracial couples have problems finding other couples to play with unless its another interracial couple??

Rear of the unknown or stigma

I know everyone has a preference but the preference here is about RACE. I thought we were supposed to be an OPEN-MINDED and NON-JUDGEMENTAL lifestyle.

Keep thinking that ok! you have of the worst closeted bigots on this site and some that need to pick up their KKK robes up on Saturday by 6p.

There are GROUPS of people that advertise how diverse they are but their member aren't! Their parties certainly don't reflect it .

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Interracial isn't only about black/white...it's also about hispanic, oriental, et al. Let's not get bogged down in the black/white thing. We've had wonderful times with hispanic, black, and oriental people. We've also been ignored by hispanic, black and oriental people...and white people. It all boils down to preference and chemistry. People have preferences, and whether you call it personal preference or prejudice is the subject of another (very acrimonious) thread. In the end, if you treat people as People, good chemistry will find you. If you treat people as Objects, it won't happen. That's just good human relations, and the interracial thing is totally irrelevant.

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people with good attitudes, confidence, and who are laid back about such stuff are VERY attractive. Sexy.

A lot about attraction has to do with how you feel about yourselves. When I read a profile that lists dozens of very specific "no"s or requirements such as extremely specific measurements and numbers, colors, educational feats, I wonder what it is that those people are afraid of, or wanting to avoid, or had had a bad experience with in their lives. Attraction, yes. Militant height and weight and race stats...hmm.

We have our preferences. yes. We are picky in areas. yes. But. We do leave ourselves pretty open to delightful surprises.

And with our experience, ages, etc., delightful surprises are a lot of fun. And quite memorable.

Gina

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I highly doubt it's all about race. We get turned down for all sorts of reasons!!

We also don't take it personal, it is what it is...their loss not ours...we think we're a good catch!!

Our validations on this site and one other proves it. Life is too short to worry about, WHY.. Move on and have fun...

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Sounds like fun :)

Mr Leeza that is sad people in your own family couldnt be happy for you :(

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I'm sure Mrs Leeza would enjoy your candy, Mr SheLikesGurls... we could take turns feeding her until she's completely satisfied...

...then I'd like a sandwich! ;^)

Back to the thread topic-- I had a black girlfriend for a few months when I was in college. I was not prepared for the reactions that I got from friends, my family or even strangers. I admire any interracial couple for being able to deal with many difficult challenges. I gave up on a great relationship because I was not strong enough.

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yes, please!

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I was taught to share my candy. You want a piece ;)

Augusta NJ
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well, I like candy-cane-colored penises....what does that make me?

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If we like you, it is you we like , not because you are a certain color religion or nationality. If we all looked alike, how friggin boring swinging would be :)

To each their own.

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