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TOPIC: Hubby okay w- FMF but not MFM
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I suppose I am like most guys in that I prefer one on one M/F. But being a single male who prefers to play with a woman who is married, I can’t ask a married woman to exclude her husband. So by default, it usually proceeds to MFM. MFM is okay provided all of the attention is being paid to her. A happy (and satisfied) woman makes for a happy and satisfied man (but it should be later for the man).
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Definitely insecurity on the guys part in most cases. MFM would normally be my preference, but it depends on the consideration/thoughtfulness of the other guy. So many men are into taking care of themselves we've been reluctant to actively pursue MFM. Seems to me the two guys need to chat beforehand and have a plan. One guy selfishly rocking the bed can ruin the experience for one or both of his partners. I'd be interested to know how other guys approach a MFM encounter?
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If you look at most profiles, you'll see that your not alone. A lot of couples have single men blocked. And I've met couples who say they have met couples that the male half doesn't want a foresome occurring. You'll here many reasons why the fmf is ok and the mfm is not. And typically the female will say she doesn't want another man and the man say he has offered to let her have another man. Everyone has their own preferences and entitlements, but it kind of sounds like the guy wants his cake and eat it too.
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I may be in the minority, but MFM is better than FMF to me from a sharing the responsibility standpoint.
FMFs are great too, but my mental focus drifts towards making sure they are both pleased, instead of pleasing myself. Its hard fucking work (pun intended). Then again I haven't had a FMF with women that I would characterise as Bi Furious, and I imagine if that were the case, some of that mental clutter would disappear. -M |
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Whalerockers, welcome to the forums. Hope you look around, make yourself at home, and have a good time.
I'm not real clear on your situation. It sounds like your husband wants to fuck other women with you, but doesn't want you fucking other men. If you are okay with that, fine. But it doesn't sound right to me, and in that case I agree with Babe. Y'all need to have a long talk. |
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Honestly MFM are my favorite. I love watching my wife enjoying another man and myself. FMF would be at the bottom of the list for me but i still want to try it sometime lol.
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Sounds like the two of you might want to sit down and openly talk about your lifestyle desires... While your fantasies may be different than his, it is very important that BOTH of you agree to try to realize them. When a couple is not on the same page, that forecasts trouble. Have you tried to talk with him?
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Whalerockers, welcome to the forums!
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