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TOPIC: How to make a FMF not seem like A lot of work for M LOL
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It seems like a lot of work, because you've got a lot of anxiety over it. Just relax, remember to laugh, and have fun. Everything else should work out, unless you just can't get it up... which can be caused by the anxiety. :)

If you go into a FMF with a plan, and a goal to "make sure they both cum", then you're doing it wrong. It's a group effort, not a solo effort. Most girls will help themselves along during the process.

We tend to spend a lot of time touching, licking, kissing and just plain ol' goofing around. nobody feels like they are "working", we're just having fun. We also don't stick one person in the middle and leave them there, if the other woman is bi at all. ;)

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I think I brought this topic up I the threesome thread. With it being my first threesome I think was like a kid in a candy store. I was so excited that I didn't want to take and breaks and was trying ti please both women. If I get another chance ( and hopefully there will be a few more) I will pace myself and allow them to play more with each other. :)

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Lets see if thats your reaction in a couple weeks Mr Luvrman ;) xoxo

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Hmmm, lets see.... back and forth, back and forth. Its like a kid in a candy store. How can we lose in an FMF :-)

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If the women involved are not as interested in each other as they are in the guy, it IS alot of work for the guy who wants to make sure both women have a good time.

Unless I know for a fact that the two women involved are "active" participants or are extremely into each other I prefer to skip the FMF and just do a series of pairings.

-M

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Work?!!

WTF?

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we've been in both MFM and FMF. Since I'm straight when we do FMF it is all about my man. It usually one of my friends, so I let him spend more time on them then with me since I'm the lucky one that gets to play with him every night.

And MFM, it isn't all about me ;) I'm very active during sex so the whole lay back and be pleasured doesn't apply. However from the stand point that the guys are just there for me yes then it is about me lol.

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PG - I likes the way you thinks!

I like the idea of concentrating on just the guy or one of the ladies.

Pickle in the middle anyone? LOL

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not always an option ;)

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Every time in my experience, both women have been bisexual. Gives plenty of time for "breaks" if need be.

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