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TOPIC: How to make a FMF not seem like A lot of work for M LOL

Created by: itsbeen20yrs Original Starting post for this thread:
This was brought up in another thread and it was suggested it would make a good topic of discussion: -------------------------- They said: "Tell me fella's.... does being in an FMF always seem to feel like 'a lot of work' and how can you make it not be that way?" I said: Scares the shit outta me, but looking forward to the day. After discussing, I would hope for an approach as the M or one of the Fs is the center of attention. Trying to keep both Fs happy by me would be a challenge, probably fun as hell...but yes, "a lot of work" likely. I only got one dick, one mouth and two hands...LOL ----------------------------- So how about those experienced Ms, what say you, what works (for you obviously) and what doesn't? Suggestions, etc. ItsBeen

Created by: itsbeen20yrs
Original Starting post for this thread:

This was brought up in another thread and it was suggested it would make a good topic of discussion:
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They said:
"Tell me fella's.... does being in an FMF always seem to feel like 'a lot of work' and how can you make it not be that way?"

I said:
Scares the shit outta me, but looking forward to the day. After discussing, I would hope for an approach as the M or one of the Fs is the center of attention. Trying to keep both Fs happy by me would be a challenge, probably fun as hell...but yes, "a lot of work" likely.

I only got one dick, one mouth and two hands...LOL 
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So how about those experienced Ms, what say you, what works (for you obviously) and what doesn't? Suggestions, etc.

ItsBeen

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User Details are only visible to members.	It seems like a lot of work, because you've got a lot of anxiety over it. Just relax, remember to laugh, and have fun. Everything else should work out, unless you just can't get it up... which can be caused by the anxiety. :) If you go into a FMF with a plan, and a goal to "make sure they both cum", then you're doing it wrong. It's a group effort, not a solo effort. Most girls will help themselves along during the process. We tend to spend a lot of time touching, licking, kissing and just plain ol' goofing around. nobody feels like they are "working", we're just having fun. We also don't stick one person in the middle and leave them there, if the other woman is bi at all. ;)
Modesto CA			Username hidden (133 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think I brought this topic up I the threesome thread. With it being my first threesome I think was like a kid in a candy store. I was so excited that I didn't want to take and breaks and was trying ti please both women. If I get another chance ( and hopefully there will be a few more) I will pace myself and allow them to play more with each other. :) Mr K
New York NY			Username hidden (22 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Lets see if thats your reaction in a couple weeks Mr Luvrman ;) xoxo
Worthington MN			Username hidden (383 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hmmm, lets see.... back and forth, back and forth. Its like a kid in a candy store. How can we lose in an FMF :-)
Emeryville CA			Username hidden (12158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If the women involved are not as interested in each other as they are in the guy, it IS alot of work for the guy who wants to make sure both women have a good time. Unless I know for a fact that the two women involved are "active" participants or are extremely into each other I prefer to skip the FMF and just do a series of pairings. -M
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (1434 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Work?!! WTF?
San Luis Obispo CA			Username hidden (1192 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	we've been in both MFM and FMF. Since I'm straight when we do FMF it is all about my man. It usually one of my friends, so I let him spend more time on them then with me since I'm the lucky one that gets to play with him every night. And MFM, it isn't all about me ;) I'm very active during sex so the whole lay back and be pleasured doesn't apply. However from the stand point that the guys are just there for me yes then it is about me lol.
Louisville KY			Username hidden (14171 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	PG - I likes the way you thinks! I like the idea of concentrating on just the guy or one of the ladies. Pickle in the middle anyone? LOL
Amherst OH			Username hidden (2271 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	not always an option ;) PG
Louisville KY			Username hidden (14171 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Every time in my experience, both women have been bisexual. Gives plenty of time for "breaks" if need be.
New Market MD			Username hidden (193 post)

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