Now that I have regained my composure lol......I know myself as a woman, I love to hear the bedroom talk, as has been wonderfully described in past posts here. That makes me as a woman feel very sexual and beautiful. I can't stand being with men that think I am nothing more than a walking vagina.......I take my own clothes off, and almost immediately he is just doing "his thing"...it makes me think he is only in it for his own pleasure and I am just there. So yes, the talking is so awesome. And the teasing, and the touching. Not just going straight for the vagina and breasts, but the other erogenous zones of the body.
shelly

Holy shit, I've only read the original post and I'm turned on!
shelly

women can orgasm when gently stroked right behind the knees

Thank you, Looking in Houston :-)
Laalla lala

Hey there Looking in Houston :-)
We are going to be in Gavelston and southern Houston at the end of April.... As a forum freind, do you have any suggestion on what we should see and where we shoulld go in the area?
Lalala lala

Being who you are and being honest with your feelings is what it is all about. Believe me, when I tell you that most women are not impressed with a guy that tells them how beautiful they are, because the guy has read that is what a woman wants to hear! LOL Any man that does what he reads, but doesn't truly feel it... will soon be revealed. These men will undoubtedly be single for most of their life, because they are merely mechanical :-( It is what, is inside of you. That is what makes you unique. Enjoy the moment ... explore the experience, and let it flow naturally. Nothing more. NO technical book can effectively direct! All you have to do is feel where you are. If you feel it , for real, the woman will sense that, and enjoy their time with you... because they know you are for real! We are not all that different then you. Just as you, prefer to be with a woman that doesn't fake their desire and orgasm, neither does a woman want a man to perform in that way. Most women are very intuitive. You can't fake it, no matter what you may read! Just be genuine and take the time to really feel, taste smell and enjoy the encounter that you are experiencing in each moment that you are in , and things will work out just fine:-) The only advice I would give: Not to worry about the outcome... just be there, in the moment that you are in, and let the good times flow naturally. xoxox Lalala lala

I'd like to take execption to the original post. The topic should have been:

"How to make love with a Woman"

Rabbit,

I agree. It does work both ways. I definitely felt like I gave more than I received in the past, But I don't play that way anymore. The experience has to be for both partners to enjoy to the fullest.

Raven

Tripple,

You are soooo right! Many men just do not take the time to explore women, nor know how how without jumping straight to the sex organs. I don't think they realize we need more of the body, soul, and mind stimulation.

Would you like to show me your technique? My place, tonight, 7:30? LoL!

Raven

Renee When that happens with a playmate, I would gently stop him again and tell him to touch you like he would velvet. Most men have no idea how to enjoy the feeling of velvet, so you may have to take their hand and show them by placing his hand on yours and you move your hand across your body. Then place your hand on his as he continue to touch you that way. I find most guys just do not understand until they are shown. I have had to re-direct playmates sometimes after that, but I use a soothing voice and just say "baby, I really love it when you touch me like this and then touch him that way. Again, I leave the ball in his court, hoping he will understand that I am asking for sensual touch. I have been known to stop someone from playing all together if their touch just does not turn me on and they can not figure out what I need after I try to show and teach them a few times. Guys, pay attention! A large amount of ladies love to be touched with the type of sensual passion that puts ripples on their skin. If you don't think you can touch that way. Buy a piece of velvet and experiment on how it feels as you move it slowly across your skin applying different amount of pressure. You will gain a sense of pleasurable erotic touch and the ladies will moan in delight as you make their bodies sway the next time you run your hand across their skin. You will find the pleasure will be returned ten fold. Kisses, Raven