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TOPIC: How long do you really last when playing
Created by: Hotwifetoo
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I am using my wife's profile to post a question to you all. I read a lot of the profiles and see where the women all want guys with extreme stamina, I see where people say they have sex all night long into the morning. I read about the swing clubs and house parties. Do you guys REALLY last that long and can keep going until everyone drops out? Based on what we have personally seen I think it is a myth. Over the years we have seen two guys that could do that. Both under 43. Most we have seen last 5 to 15 minutes and its over. We never go to swing clubs so we do not know if guys really can go from woman to woman all evening. What say You?

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That's sad.

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Once I get comfortable with the woman............usually months...........i can go until she needs to break, then do it again for hours. i can do this only because I cant get off.

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SS, my sexy friend, I seriously doubt we would have a lubrication problem ;-)

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Back to the original question.

When my wife and I play alone I'm average 5 to 15 minutes.

When I have an audience I'm the energizer bunny. I'm not sure why it happens that way. My wife was surprised the first time she watched me last for what seemed like forever.

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hey buddy. ;)

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hmmm... if she's dry, and it isn't a medical/hormonal thing... then it's YOU not her buddy.

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I am one of those guys that most of the time I can control when I pop and can usually go a few times. I enjoy just staying at the edge for as long as I can. It makes for a really intense orgasm for myself. The situation also plays an important part of it ad well. In a group play it can be a lot of fun holding out or going several times. One on one not such a good thing lasting for hours. For me its more about pleasuring my partner and picking up on there cues. Most of the time when playing with couples we have communicated enough that we all kind of have an understanding of each other and what each is looking for or desiring. I have also found for myself that feelings also impact my ability to control it as well. If it is someone who I have feelings for it is a lot harder to hold back sometimes.

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With trimix I can go quite a while and since there is no cum to worry about play time is not interrupted for clean up.

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scouple - Nope, no matter how hopped up I am on the V, the brain still controls the bone, so if I get tired, sore, hot or can tell she's not into it, it's a chore to keep the wood up.

I guess I must be one of those freakish guys because I can hold off. Oddly, it's much more difficult for me to cum if I'm on Viagra. Go figure. Anyway, once I get to a point where I've held it off I can go for a good long time and it actually takes concentration to pop.

And no, by and large, I've found that most women would rather you not pound away for hours. My experience has shown that after she's had a few orgasms, my partner is ready for me get off or get off. Obviously everyone is different, and this is where communication is so important. Easiest is when my partner looks me square in the eye and says she wants me to cum (guaranteed instant poppage there). If I sense we've gotten to a plateau of sorts I'll ask her if she wants me to cum. I have been with women though that quite literally want to fuck all night, but I'm getting too old for that shit and usually girls that are into that will be in situations where there's multiple avenues for action, so once I start getting sore I'll tap out...

I certainly don't feel "macho" because I can go a long time. I just love to fuck and don't want it to end in 5 minutes so I've learned techniques to hold off.

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Taking notes ;-)

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