How long do you last: Swingers Discussion 961391022

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User Details are only visible to members.	@dan69, while no girl really wants a "minuteman", I think your idea of asking is a great one! That way, no one gets any more or less than she desires. @toptim: you must be dealing with all the wrong girls, some of us don't complain ;-)
Mcallen TX			Username hidden (5601 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks 20years. I have lurked for a while. Finally decided to join the discussion. I don't "run it up and stop", though. I can't do it every time, but when I'm really in "the zone" I can actively thrust for an hour and let myself have the mini-orgasms. There is no stopping or telling the girl to be still or thinking about dead kittens while I let the feeling subside. The feeling just happens while I continue to pump. It is allowing the feeling to happen, but keeping the mental (orgasm) separate from the physical (ejaculation). For whatever reason, I have been able to do this since I was a kid. My "record" is 8 hours of sex, with a quick break for each of us to have a sandwich (lol). We went into the session with the intent of seeing how long I could last. Honestly we quit because we got bored! I was 23 and a newlywed at the time, though. 20 years later, neither my erection nor my lower back nor my wife's patience could handle that kind of strain anymore!
Erie PA			Username hidden (9 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	DanErie - welcome to the fora. I used that technique early on in life...run it up and stop, run it up and stop, run it up and stop...worked great on the younger ladies. But I'm too conditioned now. :-( I just keep my hands off it between interactions, seems to help. That and no lube (only the lady's natural kind) and no lube (or very little) for me...IE: beverages. Seems to help. Recovery time has not been an issue...yet...LOL
Amherst OH			Username hidden (2271 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Interesting topic. I can "allow" myself mini-orgasms that are decoupled from ejaculations. It lets me go pretty much as long as I want or at least until I just get exhausted from the physicality of sex. The downside is that if I go much over 30 minutes, I tend to lose the ability to have the big satisfying orgasm. That is balanced (in my head anyway) by the woman getting pleasure for a longer amount of time. (I need a 10-minute breather after about an hour then can go for about an hour after that. Then I just can't stay hard any longer.) Seeing some of the comments here, though ... Perhaps some women don't want the hour long sex, and might rather have the 20-minute variety. I'd personally prefer to have the larger orgasm and ejaculation I can have after 20 minutes vs. the multiple mini orgasms and last an hour or more. Again ... Interesting (and educational) topic. I just might start asking the women ahead of time how long they like sex to last. I have always assumed longer is better, but that might not be the case. Live and learn!
Erie PA			Username hidden (9 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	When I was in my 20s, women complained that I went too fast. Now that I'm in my 40s, women complain that I take too long. I just can't win.........
Hunt Valley MD			Username hidden (3556 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	@ ib20, lol, no wonder! {cheesy grin} yeah, I'm the kinda girl that's easily distracted (look! a squirrel!), but keep me focused on what's going on and I can probably keep going with the best of them. Let me lose focus....well, we're back to the ole "hanging drywall" thing again, lol {GREAT! we're back to kamikaze photo selection again...wonder which one I picked?}
Mcallen TX			Username hidden (5601 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I don't think it's much fun for anyone when things go on for longer than they should.
Modesto CA			Username hidden (133 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	ib20, funny you should mention "hanging drywall" I haven't heard anyone besides myself use that term in years. lol -------------------- Not too funny, I think that's where I saw the reference on another thread. LOL I like the term though.
Amherst OH			Username hidden (2271 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	No hours of sex for me, not what I enjoy. Hour of humping will set my pussy on fire, no thanks!
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12279 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	ib20, funny you should mention "hanging drywall" I haven't heard anyone besides myself use that term in years. lol I'm SOOO not a fan of hanging drywall. Sex that lasts a while, you betcha, as long as I'm kept "in the moment" and enjoying myself, there's no need for lube. BUT, for me it's more quality than quantity. I'd rather be done after a THOROUGHLY satisfying 20 minutes if a guy can't keep me all hot and wet for any longer than that.
Mcallen TX			Username hidden (5601 post)

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