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User Details are only visible to members.	PS the health care pro was stunned that my girlfriend was complaining, that is. She said that part of the problem may have been that I was just not having sex much back then and that when I got more comfortable with my partner that I would be more relaxed and orgasm faster. Which was true. If you have problems consult a urologist, physician or a nurse practitioner. I'm glad I did as I felt there was something wrong with me. There is plenty of things wrong with me, LOL, but my wee johnson was not one of them.
Logan WV			Username hidden (1022 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Usually half an hour, and that is IF I cum. That was a bone of contention (pardon the pun) in one of my relationships. Unless I am wearing a condom, I can sometimes go 45 mins or longer, providing I go without the blood pressure meds. One of me exes hated it, as she felt I was not into her. Which is not true, I adored her. There are some guys out there who are just slow to cum. Also, I have never been able to cum from a blow job. I went and consulted a health care professional on it and she was stunned. She said the average male lasts about five thrusts and that my girlfriend should just relax and enjoy extended sexual sessions. After we had been together a few years I got to where I could cum faster. But after we split up and I was not getting sex on a regular basis I sort of slowed down again when I did get lucky, LOL.... We got back together briefly on Dec. 2 and had sex multiple times that night, on average a half hoursession each time and unfortunately no ejaculation on my part. Of course since we had been together last, she had apparently been with some 2 minute men and was glad that I had my 'problem.' Other women seem to like tantric style sex, however. I seem to be bass ackwards by the way. With a properly fitted condom on I am lucky to last five minutes at best. Some women have told me that its the exact opposite with most guys. Apparently most guys last longer with a rubber on. Everybody is different. And what some people think is great can be a problem for others. Some women like extended sexual sessions while others only want 5-20 minutes max. It depends on the individuals.
Logan WV			Username hidden (1022 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	For the male half here, it all depends on what number orgasm he's on as for how long he lasts. For the first cum of the night, usually it's about 10-15 minutes. Recovery varies but anywhere from 5 to 20 minutes. As the evening goes on, he gets to the point that it seems that no matter what he or she does, he won't come. Dakini - there are many different sizes and styles of cock rings. It sounds like the one y'all got for the Mr. was WAY to small. While it is anticipated that there should be a small change in color of the penis as the purpose of the ring is to slow the exchange of blood in the penis, it shouldn't turn that dark. The male here has tried them before and had varied success. He's had more success with scrotal (ball) rings. He found out years ago that if he can prevent the testicles from lifting, he can avoid orgasm. It builds and builds and is amazing when it finally does come. The scrotal ring doesn't have to be constricting really, just rigid enough to keep the boys from lifting up. Also, for those that are looking to last longer, there are desensitizing creams (and condoms that are pre-loaded with the same cream) out there. For some people, they work great, and for others, they are horrible. One of those things that one would definitely want to try a few days before playtime as the effects can last a few hours, even after you've washed the area.
Charleston WV			Username hidden (351 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I decided to bring this post back from the dead because I learned something last weekend. While we are always told to think about anything other than sex... that wasn't working for me. My partner and I kind of had a "conversation" while fucking... and that made me last about 3 times as long. The next day, without the conversation, but me still thinking about what we talked about... I lasted about double the pre conversation experience. She brought up the topics... from me driving my convertible in the summer... so the current weather... to television. Just amazing. What am I getting at? Not only is it "practice" having sex... but practice to truly NOT focus on the act itself until you train yourself to last longer. I will "research" some more and get back to you all. ;-)
Binghamton NY			Username hidden (79 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"I like afternoon sex personally lol." I'll keep that in mind!
Union Grove NC			Username hidden (954 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ooooh I'm with y'all. We go out every now and again with friends and they do not start playing until like frickin 3am. Snap. By that time I have danced for hours, I'm on a little alcohol so I'm relaxed...and I'm pretty tired. I like afternoon sex personally lol. 3am just isn't for me.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23665 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Scotty, I'm a wuss. I HATE it when play doesn't start until like 3am. " I'm with you on that. I've been to a few house parties where everybody gets together at like 8 or 9 then play doesn't start until 1 or 2 in the morning. By that time, unless it's a kickin party, I'm about ready to call it a night. Now if the play starts earlier and continues to that time, that's one thing, but I just don't get the point of waiting that long to START play.
Union Grove NC			Username hidden (954 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	This method of preventing ejaculation may not be safe for playing, but with the love of my life? It works for us, we've spent the day calling each other and swooning in after glow. It doesn't get any better than that.
Niagara Falls NY			Username hidden (1262 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"I read an article about preventing ejaculation. It suggests that the man wear a double condom. He won't lose all sensation but just enough to keep going like the energizer bunny lol." JJ, that would be safe to try with your husband, but two condoms worn together are more likely to break under the heat and friction... I had the hottest Sex Ed teacher, too bad she wasn't corrupt enough to mess around with her students - BUT she made sure we knew the condom rules. I wonder if there are thick condoms out there.
Rochester NY			Username hidden (336 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Generally, I tend to be a minimum 30 minute man, up to all night without ever getting there. Most guys (and maybe even most women) might tend to think that that's a good thing. I differ.... I find it extremely difficult to ejaculate at all most of the time. Everything has to be just so.... I tend to do better with partners I'm experienced and comfortable with, as opposed to swinging-type partners whom I tend to be fairly infrequent with. I've met couples (and singles) that I was not invited back with because I wasn't able to get there and the women felt offended. I've often speculated that the reason for this might be that I've become de-sensiitized due to having seen and done too much, either in porn movies or in real life. I find that sexual stimulation is like a drug that you build up a tolerance to, always taking more and more to reach that point of stimulation. After a certain point, there's nothing else to try and you're just stuck.
Tupelo MS			Username hidden (7 post)

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