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For the male half here, it all depends on what number orgasm he's on as for how long he lasts. For the first cum of the night, usually it's about 10-15 minutes. Recovery varies but anywhere from 5 to 20 minutes. As the evening goes on, he gets to the point that it seems that no matter what he or she does, he won't come.

Dakini - there are many different sizes and styles of cock rings. It sounds like the one y'all got for the Mr. was WAY to small. While it is anticipated that there should be a small change in color of the penis as the purpose of the ring is to slow the exchange of blood in the penis, it shouldn't turn that dark. The male here has tried them before and had varied success. He's had more success with scrotal (ball) rings. He found out years ago that if he can prevent the testicles from lifting, he can avoid orgasm. It builds and builds and is amazing when it finally does come. The scrotal ring doesn't have to be constricting really, just rigid enough to keep the boys from lifting up.

Also, for those that are looking to last longer, there are desensitizing creams (and condoms that are pre-loaded with the same cream) out there. For some people, they work great, and for others, they are horrible. One of those things that one would definitely want to try a few days before playtime as the effects can last a few hours, even after you've washed the area.

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I decided to bring this post back from the dead because I learned something last weekend.

While we are always told to think about anything other than sex... that wasn't working for me. My partner and I kind of had a "conversation" while fucking... and that made me last about 3 times as long. The next day, without the conversation, but me still thinking about what we talked about... I lasted about double the pre conversation experience. She brought up the topics... from me driving my convertible in the summer... so the current weather... to television. Just amazing.

What am I getting at? Not only is it "practice" having sex... but practice to truly NOT focus on the act itself until you train yourself to last longer. I will "research" some more and get back to you all. ;-)

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"I like afternoon sex personally lol."

I'll keep that in mind!

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Ooooh I'm with y'all. We go out every now and again with friends and they do not start playing until like frickin 3am. Snap. By that time I have danced for hours, I'm on a little alcohol so I'm relaxed...and I'm pretty tired. I like afternoon sex personally lol. 3am just isn't for me.


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"Scotty, I'm a wuss. I HATE it when play doesn't start until like 3am. "

I'm with you on that. I've been to a few house parties where everybody gets together at like 8 or 9 then play doesn't start until 1 or 2 in the morning. By that time, unless it's a kickin party, I'm about ready to call it a night. Now if the play starts earlier and continues to that time, that's one thing, but I just don't get the point of waiting that long to START play.

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This method of preventing ejaculation may not be safe for playing, but with the love of my life? It works for us, we've spent the day calling each other and swooning in after glow. It doesn't get any better than that.

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"I read an article about preventing ejaculation. It suggests that the man wear a double condom. He won't lose all sensation but just enough to keep going like the energizer bunny lol."

JJ, that would be safe to try with your husband, but two condoms worn together are more likely to break under the heat and friction... I had the hottest Sex Ed teacher, too bad she wasn't corrupt enough to mess around with her students - BUT she made sure we knew the condom rules.

I wonder if there are thick condoms out there.

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Generally, I tend to be a minimum 30 minute man, up to all night without ever getting there. Most guys (and maybe even most women) might tend to think that that's a good thing. I differ....

I find it extremely difficult to ejaculate at all most of the time. Everything has to be just so.... I tend to do better with partners I'm experienced and comfortable with, as opposed to swinging-type partners whom I tend to be fairly infrequent with. I've met couples (and singles) that I was not invited back with because I wasn't able to get there and the women felt offended.

I've often speculated that the reason for this might be that I've become de-sensiitized due to having seen and done too much, either in porn movies or in real life. I find that sexual stimulation is like a drug that you build up a tolerance to, always taking more and more to reach that point of stimulation. After a certain point, there's nothing else to try and you're just stuck.

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There are times when I'm in the mood to go on forever, and ever. Well that's not realistic for most men. I read an article about preventing ejaculation. I suggests that the man wear a double condom. He won't lose all sensation but just enough to keep going like the energizer bunny lol. Hubby never wears a condom with me, but agreed to try this, well I had the time of my life. It worked very well!!!!! We were able to fuck for ever and I got off again and again, when I was at the point of passing out, he took the condoms off and had one of the most intense orgasms of his life.

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I usually manage to stay on for the full 8 seconds! :-))

Jim

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