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I totally have no concept of time...especially when I'm having fun!
And, Mrs. Sed, as usual you've got it spot on: spit is the best lube, but silicone-based runs a nice second! |
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I dislike preplanned situations/scenarios, when there is heat/lust between the parties involved, time flies. Things flow so to speak. Lube requires pausing, getting it, spreading it. I too suffer from the *Hey look something shiny over there!* syndrome. Nothing though, that spit and a muscular hubby can't solve.
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Kibbles! You got me. After I wrote "5 minutes", I realized the best grooves tend to go a good bit longer than that.
Sometimes I think we've been going good for 40 minutes, but I espy the clock on the nightstand, and it's only been 20! So I tried to account for that time-dilation. I like to get out while the getting is good. Don't overstay the welcome. This is true whether you're changing positions or orifices or partners. Keep it exciting and new. You do get more creative as you get older. At least some of us do. |
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No need to watch the clock;) Communicate either verbally or with some gentle body language to let your partner know you would like to mix it up with a different position or take a short break for something else like: blow job, hand job, massage, kissing or a cuddle break:)
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The older I get, the more I appreciate a position change, just not as limber/flexible as I used to be, lol. I don't know if every 5 minutes would work for me personally, though, sometimes that's about the time you hit a good groove...maybe ten-ish minutes....GREAT! Now I have to watch the clock next time....or not.
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"... if a different position would be better, and if they need the playtime to end. "
We've noticed that a lot of guys stay with one position for what seems like a long time. I prefer to change the approach rather frequently -- within 5 minutes, maybe. This almost always is successful at re-igniting what was good to begin with. On changing positions: When it's just her and me, it's usually my call. When there's a 2nd guy, we have to get a consensus. We don't want to break his concentration, so it can be a delicate balance. |
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how think now stay if I just scratch my Dick when i walk little beat faster I am done. :)
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Outdoors, some women, especially those who are in peri-menopause or full menopause, have difficulty producing natural lubrication even though they may be very interested in sex. There are lubes for that, so dryness is not necessarily an accurate indication of whether the woman has lost interest. Both people need to speak up to let the other know what feels good, if a different position would be better, and if they need the playtime to end.
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Without asking directly, can't we (guys) get a sense of how long a woman wants to continue? She may not know until she feels it inside her.
Unless she's faking continuous pleasure, we should know she would like a break. The comments about lube are interesting. Is the theory that when she's stopped producing it, she's lost interest? When we decide to try for 8 hours, we'll make sandwiches in advance. |
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Oh, you poor guy! It's such a shame that you're not properly appreciated!
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