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DanErie - welcome to the fora.

I used that technique early on in life...run it up and stop, run it up and stop, run it up and stop...worked great on the younger ladies. But I'm too conditioned now. :-(

I just keep my hands off it between interactions, seems to help. That and no lube (only the lady's natural kind) and no lube (or very little) for me...IE: beverages.

Seems to help. Recovery time has not been an issue...yet...LOL

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Interesting topic. I can "allow" myself mini-orgasms that are decoupled from ejaculations. It lets me go pretty much as long as I want or at least until I just get exhausted from the physicality of sex. The downside is that if I go much over 30 minutes, I tend to lose the ability to have the big satisfying orgasm. That is balanced (in my head anyway) by the woman getting pleasure for a longer amount of time. (I need a 10-minute breather after about an hour then can go for about an hour after that. Then I just can't stay hard any longer.) Seeing some of the comments here, though ... Perhaps some women don't want the hour long sex, and might rather have the 20-minute variety. I'd personally prefer to have the larger orgasm and ejaculation I can have after 20 minutes vs. the multiple mini orgasms and last an hour or more. Again ... Interesting (and educational) topic. I just might start asking the women ahead of time how long they like sex to last. I have always assumed longer is better, but that might not be the case. Live and learn!

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When I was in my 20s, women complained that I went too fast.

Now that I'm in my 40s, women complain that I take too long.

I just can't win.........

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@ ib20, lol, no wonder! {cheesy grin}

yeah, I'm the kinda girl that's easily distracted (look! a squirrel!), but keep me focused on what's going on and I can probably keep going with the best of them. Let me lose focus....well, we're back to the ole "hanging drywall" thing again, lol

{GREAT! we're back to kamikaze photo selection again...wonder which one I picked?}

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I don't think it's much fun for anyone when things go on for longer than they should.

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ib20, funny you should mention "hanging drywall" I haven't heard anyone besides myself use that term in years. lol -------------------- Not too funny, I think that's where I saw the reference on another thread. LOL I like the term though.

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No hours of sex for me, not what I enjoy. Hour of humping will set my pussy on fire, no thanks!

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ib20, funny you should mention "hanging drywall" I haven't heard anyone besides myself use that term in years. lol

I'm SOOO not a fan of hanging drywall. Sex that lasts a while, you betcha, as long as I'm kept "in the moment" and enjoying myself, there's no need for lube. BUT, for me it's more quality than quantity. I'd rather be done after a THOROUGHLY satisfying 20 minutes if a guy can't keep me all hot and wet for any longer than that.

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I generally have to work pretty hard to come in under 5 minutes, and it usually requires doggy style. There's just something about that position... the hips, the ladies back, the legs squeezed together, my balls slapping up against the clit... which sets me up for blast off.

Any other position, and I can pretty much last as long as I want. I usually wait for the Mrs. to give me the signal that she's ready for it, then step my game up into overdrive to make it happen. :)

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Then the two of us would probably get along very nicely......

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