best way is to walk up and say....HI

chuck

True that, that is a great idea.
Shelly

Well, in our case, while we wouldn't mind a couple that plays seperately, we would have to meet both of them together first. Maybe we're less trusting than some, but we're more likely to believe you're a couple if we meet than if you give us a phone number to call.

This is the right site. But I will forewarn you on this. Even though you have your wife's permission to play separately (and this is cool, don't get me wrong) you will find that most couples will still shy away from you. This is because there are so many bad apples on the tree, alot of times we can't tell the good from the bad and so shy away from the whole tree. What I would suggest is that when you tell a couple that you are married and play separately from your wife you offer them a phone number so they can call and speak with her. Talking with her and hearing that there is a woman's voice on the other line will calm their hesitations I think. But other than that they will be leery in honesty. This is because I have received numerous emails from "businessmen" who are going to be in the area, and their wife knows....or a woman getting a call at her office from an irate fiance or wife. These things happen. Shelly

I have met several long-term single female friends here who are like me-(i) we have the proper mental state to maintain a sexual friendship (as contrasted with an emotionally committed relationship), (ii) we love sex and are real good at it, and (iii) we have succeeded in excising most of the drama from our lives. Be advised, though, that maybe only 25% of the single men and women possess these characteristics, and you may have to first endure the other 75% to find a functional partner.