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This is sort of a technical question, and I mean it only in the context of having sex with the female of the other couple (full swap). Of course, there are many other instances in your life in which you experience erections, but I'm not asking in general. Just in the specific situation when you and your wife do full swap with another couple. Obviously, the basic requirement is that your tool will have to rise to the occasion, and I want to do an informal survey of how exactly this happens among typical males. Let me list what I regard as some possibilities, based on our own experience playing with couples, on direct conversations with other swingers we've met over the years, and on things that I've read here in the forums: 1. I take Viagra or similar, either because I tend to need it or just as an "insurance" to make sure that nothing goes wrong at the critical moment. So the answer in this case is straightforward: I attain my erections with the help of some pharmaceutical agent. 2. Usually the other female I'm going to play with is happy to give me some oral sex, and that either gives me the full erection needed, or solidifies a partial erection so it becomes complete, and get me ready. 3. I tend to attain erections easily and by the time my clothes are coming off I'm already hard. 4. My wife is just about the only person who knows how to get me ready, so I start playing with her and continue until I'm hard, and at that point we are ready do swap as soon as the other couple is ready too. 5. Other???

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Original Starting post for this thread:

This is sort of a technical question, and I mean it only in the context of having sex with the female of the other couple (full swap). Of course, there are many other instances in your life in which you experience erections, but I'm not asking in general. Just in the specific situation when you and your wife do full swap with another couple.

Obviously, the basic requirement is that your tool will have to rise to the occasion, and I want to do an informal survey of how exactly this happens among typical males. Let me list what I regard as some possibilities, based on our own experience playing with couples, on direct conversations with other swingers we've met over the years, and on things that I've read here in the forums:

1. I take Viagra or similar, either because I tend to need it or just as an "insurance" to make sure that nothing goes wrong at the critical moment. So the answer in this case is straightforward: I attain my erections with the help of some pharmaceutical agent.

2. Usually the other female I'm going to play with is happy to give me some oral sex, and that either gives me the full erection needed, or solidifies a partial erection so it becomes complete, and get me ready.

3. I tend to attain erections easily and by the time my clothes are coming off I'm already hard.

4. My wife is just about the only person who knows how to get me ready, so I start playing with her and continue until I'm hard, and at that point we are ready do swap as soon as the other couple is ready too.

5. Other???

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User Details are only visible to members.	ROR @fjep's boner post..raughing out roud as long as you don't have high blood pressure vigar 25 or stamina rx work find and are at just about any c-store.
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User Details are only visible to members.	"You didn't think they just walked around with a boner all the time now ,did you? " ================================================= I did from 15 to about 25. Sometimes I had absolutely no control and it was embarrassing. Every time I picked up a date or took her home I had that damn boner, even after getting laid. I don't think I ever tucked in a shirt those years.
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User Details are only visible to members.	"The fluffer would be the male/female that keeps the guys up and ready to perform when they are shooting the movies.You didn't think they just walked around with a boner all the time now ,did you? " You're absolutely right, although fluffers are generally used more for the gangbang type of shoots where it's more random guys that need to be up to bat quickly and get off quickly. For the standard shoots where a guy needs to be hard for a couple hours at a time for stills and video, alot of times "little helpers" (and we're not talking about midgets) are used. It's scary, but there are some guys in the industry that take viagra and cialis just like they are vitamins.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Now there my little sexy pirate Shell, how do I get one of those keys I see there in that there picture ?" I think its in your pants.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Haha yeah just don't call me a fluffer. LOL.
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User Details are only visible to members.	No, I would say in my personal opinion that there is not a safe place to get and injest prescription medication other than from your doctor. Remember, your dr. is not looking at the pill, he/she is looking at whether or not your body is able to handle the drug. Take Jay for instance, he asked about them for party situations and because of hypertension issues he had at the time the doctor said absolutely not. Today, now that his issues are resolved, he may. But I would never sit back and have Jay take pills without his doctor's knowledge. I'm not trying to harp and you are adults, you can do as you wish. Do not ever buy from Mexican pharmacies though, you do not know what you are getting.
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User Details are only visible to members.	so is there a safe place to get pills without going to the doctor? We only goto a handfull of parties and 10 pills would last a year or two
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User Details are only visible to members.	what is a fluffer?
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User Details are only visible to members.	Your more than welcome ANYTHING else I can give thee :) Now there my little sexy pirate Shell, how do I get one of those keys I see there in that there picture ?
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User Details are only visible to members.	I use a combo answer 1 and 2 using a over the counter sum sum whatever i think is worth trying at the time. Insurance being the key word for using selection 1. Keeping it real & honest and surprisingly discovering not sneaking it to be a turn on to female play mates for using selection 2 for the combo...the package on most says works within 30 minutes....I've found that to be bankable. a side note is not drinking if you know you are going to play...babes over booze any day
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