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TOPIC: How do you Vet a SM
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Are there questions you ask in particular right off the bat? Are they very different then for couples? What do you look out for and want to know? Any clever ways to figure out if they are married and cheating besides the obvious red flags like daytime play only? What are some common red flags?
Anything you've learned or experienced that could help weed out some problems. I'm mostly concerned that they are married, not sure what else to be concerned about. Any advice or insight is appreciated... |
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Heck of an ice breaker
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That's always the first question we ask. "Are you capable of ejaculating?"
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It may sound cold and hard, (no pun intended) but if ejaculation is important to you than I think you must ask. "Are you able to ejaculate at least once." For my sweetie that moment of ejaculation is very important.
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bring along a cat for a CAT-scan ;)
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Can't live without'em...
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Ask the SM how he feels about ellipsis...
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I just posted a comment in the Best Lines thread about one of those wacky questions.
Around here, I go with my gut feeling about people and only once has it proven me wrong. |
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thanks sweets! :)
I guess from the horror stories I hear, I am under the impression that too many SM's are sneaky (not you sexy fella's in here!) and there's ways how to figure out who is and who is not, early on. I'm also naive about SM's. When I think about it though, Couples can be misrepresenting themselves just the same. I guess I'm over-thinking it. (...now that's a shocker. lol) |
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Kind, don't take this as a flippant response, but essentially, anything they want. There may be things that are off-limits until we know each other better and possibly after as well, but I expect them to ask whatever they want in order to get to know me and feel comfortable. Of course, I'll probably ask them the same questions.
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lol@Fun
doesn't sound so bad you know... lol ;) Question 1, How do you feel about a leash? seriously tho, single fella's, what do you expect new couples to ask you? |
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