I dunno, Shell...we only bowl w/ lifestyle partners! And then we come to our house and have sex!

Gina

Well as you know, if all did the right thing all of the time there would be no need for jails. Unfortunately sometimes all of us make mistakes and do not do things the best way. The lifestyle is what the lifestyle is. If one does not like things they can do things their own way or take up bowling.

That is good to know Lost. So many double standards. Good to see some people are not fools LOL.

It is NOT okay for a woman to do such things and most couples/singles agree to this point. The fact is however, the vast majority of people doing this are cheating husbands. Are there cheating wives? Of course there are and in the past the vast concensus was the fact that it is as bad for a woman to do this as a man. Can women get away with it more than men? Quite frankly, yes. In truth people get desperate in finding that bi female so sometimes we go astray and do things we should not do in order to get what we want. However it is my opinion that a cheating wife and a cheating husband sits at the same level.

Whats the difference if he as a single profile, than a female doing the same thing? OH my bad it is because he is a guy, sorry my bad.

OK here is what you do. Go find a big stick, i mean the size of a bat, then run up to her a fast as you can and hand it to her so she can smack you up side the head, then just sit there and wait she will let you know if and when she is ready.

Heehee! When I read that the first thought that popped into my brain was the Trojan condom commercials from a few years back...Thank you Trojan Man, thank you Trojan Man! I'm actually watching an interesting show on History International...but this is more interesting lol.

Well said Ritzantitz
But on to "How I got the the wife to do it" It was very hard and yet so easy. I talked to her about it a few times. Her ans NO WAY or IF YOU WANT THAT GET ANOTHER WIFE. So I dropped it lost cause I thought. Well along comes the TV show"Swingtown"!! She watches it, likes it then out of the blue says thats what you want to do? I was like yea?? Then she says yea we can try that!!!! Been having fun every since. Let her decide the pace and NEVER push her. Now she wants to try another women. "Swingtown" BEST TV show ever made!! Thank you SWNIGTOWN!! oh yea she is very into it now.

Remember, It's her body. When she is ready to swap she will, until then, don't push her to do something she does not want to do yet.

Yes, Perfect I hope things get better for you.