Women are the bait! Hell, guy's like women, women like women, Their just a lot hotter than us guy's! But yeah, I do agree their needs to be at least a few pics of the guy. I add profiles to our friends list for the wife to look at based on the womans looks and how the profile reads. Then she e-mails back and forth and we FINALLY get a few pics of te guy and says.....UGH, NO! We could have save a lot of time if they would just post a few! Sheesh!

Yeah, bad spelling, I can translate, but the way some thoughts come out of people's brains, sometimes no, lol.

Erica when you interpret it let me know.

Usually, pics are more of women because men are visual creatures who are stimulated by pictures more than what is being said in a profile. That, and sometimes job-related concerns, esp with military or other professional men who need more discretion. We always make sure that if we're corresponding with someone in an email, we include face pictures of both of us, but as far as our public profile pictures, we do not. As for no pics of the males because they're sloppy or ugly and their own wives don't want to fuck them...that is not the definition of a true swinger couple. Most of us have no need for desperation in males or females, and do this for fun, not out of necessity. You've got to be kidding, or posting to get a rise from people; you cannot possibly have that opinion, seriously? If so, you will have trouble being successful in this lifestyle for any real length of time. My husband is my best fuck. If that weren't true, we would not be here able to swing so successfully and with the right attitudes. Good luck. Gina

Well IMO your a genius. Oh shit, you said stop. IMO that picture of you is stunning. Sorry, that was JMO. Okay okay Erica, stopping now lol.

I would have thought that it was because was an overweight slob that the wife didn't want to have sex with to begin with, and she knows with a picture, other ladies wouldn't either. " Number one, because a person is overweight does not make them a slob. I know many thin people who dress like shit and stink like hell, are they less slobs than the BBW who is clean? Because the number on her scale says a higher number is she not as clean and neat a person as the one who's scale says 110 pounds? I have been BBW Sir and I assure you that I have never in my life been a slob or sloppy person. Be careful when you throw an entire group of people together into one box. And because one's husband does not meet your definition of HWP (and to be quite honest with you, your own pictures do not meet the definition of HWP to some I know) that does not mean the wife is desperately seeking a thin man. I myself rarely fuck men who weigh less than 180 pounds because I am not attracted to skinny, lanky framed men in any way. This is purely my opinion and you are welcome to your own. But if you believe that we are desperately seeking others because our husbands are "slobs" as you describe it you'd better think again. JMO.

NaughtyWilliam-

Ditto

I would have thought that it was because was an overweight slob that the wife didn't want to have sex with to begin with, and she knows with a picture, other ladies wouldn't either. That's also why a lot of couples are only interested in females. The overweight slob knows that his wife is still an attractive woman, and he don't want her to be with a halfway decent man. She usually isn't interested in being bi, but if it means that she don't have to sleep with her husband, she'll do it. My ladyfriend and I have attended many meet and greets where the female part of a couple was literally begging my partner to sleep with her husband so she wouldn't have to.

I am guessing that a good majority of profiles are set up and maintained by the male 1/2. Like me, they are probably more interested in having their wife’s pictures showing than their own…just human male tendency as far as I am concerned…how many guys really think they are sexier than their wife???? The term bait was used in an earlier post, and I agree with it. But ask yourself this, what would grab your attention quicker, a nice looking lady with a fine ass on her hands and knees, or some bloke sitting on a couch looking like he just got done reading the Sunday paper? On our profile we only have 1 pic of the male 1/2 in the public pictures. But then again, we are mainly looking for males anyway. If the guy looking at our profile is more concerned with what the male 1/2 looks like than I don’t think he is what we are really looking for anyway…lol We do however; have plenty of other “face” type pictures of both of us in the private section…we are more than happy to unlock them for anyone who requests it…we do not hide ourselves from anyone if they are interested in us…they will know exactly what we look like prior to any meeting. One gripe that I have is a profile that has no public pictures showing whatsoever. I can honestly say that we have NEVER contacted anyone that had no pictures showing on their profile, regardless of how well the profile read. We have enough photos in our public gallery that someone can get a good idea of what we look like, even though our faces are not shown…and we still maintain our privacy in a town of 1500 people. The “we are professionals” excuse is just plain ole bullshit. If they are professional than they should be able to afford to pay someone to doctor some photos so their faces are not recognizable and post them to their profile…why waste peoples time only to find out that they are someone you would never want to meet anyway???? No pictures = No interest on our part

This is one thing that really frustrates my other half too. She is bi-curious not lesbian. She wants to see the male half of the couple as well to see if there is any spark or desire or interest. Otherwise it is like a premature ejaculation, you get all excited and then realize it was over before it started. And I will toss this out from the male side about may of the woman pictures. I love to see T&A and anything else, but if thats all in your profile you are doing yourself an injustice. I can understand you not wanting your face seen but on the flip side, you can use a swirl or something to hide your face and show your body. It doesnt have to be naked but hey lets get an idea of how you are built just the same. I am only a couple of weeks old on this site and have seen this question asked a few times. I sense it is a frustration for many but it wont change anytime soon or really at all. So the best thing I can say is find people who do have pictures both of you like and the ones that dont, well their loss really.