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TOPIC: Guys,_what_is_the_deal
Created by: coupleforfun69
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I have a question for all the men on this site. We had been talking to a couple of guys trying to set up meetings. Talked to both guys for a while, traded pics and set up to meet. The first guy (oralguy25ny) never showed, never called or e-mail. Then we set up to meet with the second guy (hornyseldenboy), talked to him on a Tuesday, were to meet Friday, he too never showed. Called his cell, no answer. I sent him an e-mail, very nice just concerned something happened. Instead of writing back, he blocks us.

Can someone please fill me in to what the hell that is???

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In response to SCB19 . age does matter to most , but that's there lose, while in vegas , I attented a event and was past on by other members even lied to by one couple and a single female, whom was dump by her play mate at the event, as I was leaveing she ask if we could get together later, nothing ever happen. the following week , one of the members made a comment on how she had sex with all the guys attenting the event , all B.S .never happened . and yet we good singles guys because of age and whatever get dump on. Just a exsample of what happened more than once, the couples and singles whom complain about some single males get what they get. SCB19 while in places such as vegas and others if nothing is happening no problem ,,,I just move on and have a date with sexy and horny women outside the ls . For me age is nothin action is everything .

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As a single guy I would say the issue lies with the fact as one other posted the guys perhaps are married or more likely aren't who they claim to be. They probably are using another persons photos as theirs. A lot of males or individuals are online to just talk or collect photos with no intention of meeting and are not who they claim to be. My advice would be to at least use a webcam prior to setting up a meeting to confirm they are real and look the same as their photos. You do not have to stay on cam long but only a minute or two just to ask a few questions and talk and make sure it isn't a recording being played for you of someone on a cam. The only other suggest would be to meet single males at meet and greets, parties and clubs.

The other possibility is the male didn't have the heart to tell a couple/female they weren't interested once they were provided photos or were worried about the compatibility if the date was a blind date. Many couples and females do not have photos posted that are recent, clear and show whole body. I have learned not to do blind dates any longer.

I am very real and would not stand up anyone but have been stood up by couples and single females also and it seems it occurs most often when there is some distance for me to travel for the meeting. So single males are stood up probably just as much.

I would suggest also placing an emphasis on selecting certified males since you know at least they are real.

If anyone is normal and hwp and is interested in a great single male hit me up.

Carson CA
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I am here for the fun of it . does not matter to me if I am dateing a couple or single in the life style, just saying I am available for a good time, age to me is nothing its your actions that speaks .

Bradford Canada
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I'd like to address 2 of the comments below:

1)to Mario....in 15 years things have not changed. Single guys get no respect.

2)to Sinbach....if you think being over 60 as a single male doesn't matter, then I need to move where you are. I have found it difficult to hook up with others and I credit that to my age (after all I am gorgeous and have a sparkling personality....but mostly I'm very modest). I just take things as they come...maybe I am different...yes I want sex, but I would love to meet that SF that wants a real relationship inside the lifestyle.

Hilton Head SC
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Usually a married guy pretending to be single. wife has no idea what he is doing on line. He doesn't have an excuse to get out of the house to meet you both. Can't take a call or she will find out. Just write the guy off. Block him and move on. Part of the game that men play.

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We had the same issue when we met one on one with couples and single guys. Must say that the guys were much more frequently no shows. Some would offer flimsy reasons for not showing up while others would simply disappear. As a result of the no shows we now only meet others at parties, meet and greets or a lifestyle friendly campground that we go to. No more wasted evenings waiting for someone who likely had no intention of meeting.

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For those whom may what to know ,,,I as single older male have no problems with dateing , I even show for my dates never would I ever think of standing anyone up. My word is every thing to me, Age of a couple or single I do not care at all, it the person re there action that makes or breakes a date.

Bradford Canada
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I think very few women are going to looks twice at a guy with an age listed as 69.....its not the couple or womans fault.

Summerville SC
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I get so tired of that line.. "You don't know what your missing out on" ,, yea I'm missing out so just let me ,,trust me of the two of us, I know what turns me on, I'm the expert on me.

Houston TX
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@sinbach - I beg to differ with you on that. Yes, of course personality has a lot to do with things. But... there are many couples that will not play with a single male young enough to be their son or old enough to be their dad. Doesn't matter what a "great guy" he is.

Case in point...we hosted a Meet & Greet that was a "come one, come all" event. No guest list, just whoever showed up, showed up. I had about 10 couples; majority in their 40's and 50's. And about 15 single males. The SM's ranged from very early 20's to one guy that was (a very fit) 72 years old. Which guys did the couples gravitate towards? The 30 and 40 something SM's.

Are there couples out there that don't care about age? Sure! Just not where we live. The lifestyle is pretty different here in the middle of the Pacific.

Wailuku HI
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