I had trouble one time with getting it up. That's when I learned I cannot fuck just any woman. Gotta have some attraction or it's not gonna happen.

Isn't it cool when we all find out what works well for us? that's what makes this fun.

I just love hands."

I do not. But again, I do understand...and this is why I like single men. I have only had this issue come up, pardon the pun, with husbands. Single men work very well with me and thats why they are my much preferred playmate :0).

Lost, from my understanding even with the pills it's not easy nor 100% guarantee."

Oh I understand and would never complain to the guy about it. But I won't lie, it annoys the shit out of me.

It certainly has happened to me a few times over the years. Usually tied to exhaustion or illness.

A couple of times in swing situations when a woman said or did something that just completely turned me OFF!

Elchard

I find that if I haven't been working out and I am tired, I have trouble keeping it up.
When I was young, I spent a lot of time learning how to hold off cumming, to the point I was able to go for hours without cumming.
Now I just plain don't cum very easily. It can be frustrating to my partners, but at the same time it means I am hard for a long time.

And guys? Don't apologize over and over for it. It happens, it's not a big deal, you can do many many many other things to please us women, and we still have a good time. It's a condom thing, it might be a first time nerves thing, really: not a problem here. And I'll tell you this: if a lot of time goes by and you have given me tons of orgasms already, there is nothing I like more than to watch and help you get yourself off...I love to see a man masturbate if he is so inclined. It's the hands. And it's also a matter of getting to partake in something you are usually private about.

I just love hands.

Gina

M- we are the same way.. we like to enjoy our time with the other couple..doing other things.. We are going to MB with another couple this week.. we enjoy each others company... in an out of bed room.. it wouldnt be as fun if we only got together to play... :)

And it is nice you understand... yes it would be nice, if it would have a button.. hard soft..hehe...

It is still all mental... the pills will help even with the mental aspect of it.. because you know in your head..they do work.. not 100% buit in the 90's..
If all women understood how much pressure can be on the man.. I think they would understand better.. But still just go with the flow.. don't think what if..what if.. just enjoy the time.. an have fun.. :)

If i drink to much, I can't cum. My dick is hard enough to cut diamonds but i can't get off. Karen calls it reverse wiskey dick.

I've not yet had trouble getting hard. I'm sure with age that could become and issue... but there are pills.