i love getting a hot blowjob to completion...the feeling of her mouth milking the cum from me is awesum......but i always tell the lady when its coming and she can continue or have me cum somewhere else ....its supposed to be pleasurable for both and if the guy is only thinking about himself he is an inconsiderate jerk.....

Mike

Well if a guy does that to a lady he's an ass pure and simple. Don't get me wrong, I love getting a BJ to completion, it's absolutely AWESOME! But I always ask first before hand or at least during, and if the answer's no, then I find another way to cum. There is no excuse, a guy knows when it's time and has complete control.

Felatrix LaStrange - one of the lesser-known Harry Potter characters ;-)

"felatrix"

I like that word.

You would have to ask the individual guy why they do that. I gotta be honest, I have never, ever been able to ejaculate from fellatio. It just doesn't happen. My favorite all time partner used to get furious at me over that, as she was an exceptional felatrix. She did deep throat so good she'd make a porn star blush. When you did come from other ways, she wass happy to drink your DNA too. The next gal I was with gave wonderful head, but once again, the volcano never exploded in her mouth.... She got upset because she thought it was her fault, when I guess it was mine. I am just not big into the whole blowjob thing, unless it is with a girl who gets off giving BJs. Most women, I just figure they are doing it for me to be nice, or whatever. And generaly speaking I get more excited by going down on a woman than from them going down on me.

Not blaming you or anything by if you don't want the guy to cum, don't want him to cum in your mouth, and/or you want to know when he is ready, or getting close, then why not say so before you start giving him head. At the moment a women is holding your cock, ready to wrap her lips around it, guys are very open to suggestion, commands, direction. Sure, guys shouldn't be such dumb asses and just assume it is OK, but some probably will think that if you haven't said otherwise, and you are sucking his cock, then you plan on finishing. Bad assumption, but I can see where it requires some clarification. Just say, "listen, I don't want you to cum in my mouth, so be sure to let me know when you are getting close, OK?" "OK?" In my case, there is no way you would need a specific warning, although I would be glad to shout it out anyway. I couldn't imagine not being vocal all through a blow-job and when nearing the home stretch, there is no doubt what is happening, or about to happen with me. I haven't done the warning thing since high school but I sure wouldn't have any problem with it if asked. When fucking, I ALWAYS announce it, even ask permission, usually in the form of, "would you like me to cum now?" Otherwise, she may just tell me she wants me to cum.

No thanks Lick-N-Nibbles, but fair play is fair play. I've gone down on my woman after coming in her. It's all about providing pleasure for your partner.

"I wouldn't be with a woman if she didn't like me coming in her mouth. Do I tell her when I'm coming. Not explicitly, but I do tell her with my moan, by breath, and my body gets tense all over and my cock super hard. If a woman, can't tell if a man is going to come, she's just not paying attention. Kindness is the greatest wisdom and quiting on the job is just not right." Talk about ballsy for a second post...watch your sleep around here with comments like that...you might wake up the next John Bobbit. There's nothing wrong with cumming in a woman's mouth...if that's what you've both agreed to, but seriously wouldn't you rather do it somewhere else...I know I would. Porn has made the whole "facial" concept too popular IMO. "Quitting on the job" would be a woman getting a guy good and hard then walking away.

Is it odd that this exact thought has crossed my mind when I'm pissed off at my superior? LMAO!!"

No, great minds think alike, thats why..LOL. And submission. You are right. I'm the first to admit that I am a moody Gemini switch LMFAO.

"Most women don't respond well to such crude demands. ;)"

Haven't you heard of submission?! LOL! ; )