I agree that the O is not the finish line...omg especially not for women who are multi orgasmic like us lucky girls are. Ha. The first is just the beginning my dear, it pisses him off that he gets maybe 2 orgasms and I'm rolling on and on and on. Hey, God gave us periods and child birth, He had to throw us a bone somewhere haha......and the clitoris is my FRIEND! So with me if a man cannot take me to one orgasm I'll tell you, he needs instruction ha. Cause my vibrator can damn sure get that job done. So no its not the finish line.....but for me sex without good orgasms is just good cardio.
Shell

You need to learn how to do oral!!! For me it is a most!!! I like to have several orgasms before having my way with the guyse cock. A guys tongue can be sensual.. don't really care for fingers until after the second or third orgasm. Then I am ready for about anything. LOVE 69

Nope, it's not all about the nut, it's about pleasure and fun and seduction and desire and panting hot steamy sex, and passion, and skill, and tecnique and kissing and touching and licking and nibbling and flirting and dancing and undressing and posing and exhibiting and exhaling and exhausting and enticing and arousing and fucking and sucking and teasing and anticipating, and wriggling, and laughing and sighing and....hmmmm....what else?

Amen. Besides, it tastes great and is less filling!

You people take this topic seriously. Is it really about the nut? I can care less about orgasms. Yes it feels good. It's awesome, but it's over when you reach that point. If I know I'm going to cum, I pull out and do something else. No I'm not a one minute man, I just want to play. When play time is pretty much over, I'll get mine off.

Gina, you are a lucky girl haha. Given I'm not much an "oral" girl. I prefer cock over tongue 10 times over. I can do about 10 minutes of oral and then bring on the meat ha. I have also found that I am very particular. I'm the opposite of you in this regard, I have yet to find a man that did oral on me and I was like "wow"...well other than Jay I mean. I mean in the swinging arena. I think from what I've heard and seen that most women like their oral rough. So usually men do that and with oral I want a very soft and gentle touch. I don't need him chewing on my body parts. However, I also recognize the fact that its not my favorite of the sexual festivities haha. Thank you gentlemen for giving us leave in regards to posting here. Shell

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Sure beats playing "Hide the Ice Cube"

I've enjoyed reading the posts about this subject, and once again, my feeling is validated that it's not "everyone" who does it, enjoys it, cums from it, knows what he's always doing...it's a preference, it's a spice, it's a foreplay maneuver, and sometimes it's just ok, sometimes it's great. I've yet to complain about being touched...there isn't anyone who doesn't know how to touch me to orgasm so far. Sometimes maybe not as intense, but as long as I'm turned on, the manual stimulation on various parts of my body usually leads to at least one (if not many) orgasms, depending on the sensualness of any preliminaries. Ok, that said, if you just come up to me and grab my pussy, I'm probably not going to cum (unless my husband whispers in my ear to do so...ha.). just sayin. Off to other forums, and thanks, Guys, for letting us gals have some imput. Gina

Gina, thanks for posting these good questions, although some would be better placed in the women forum. As for thoughts on the oral experience, that's not an area where I'm particularly confident. With my ex I learned to do it ok for her, but realized that each woman is different and therefore felt clueless about how to approach women generally in this regard. So all I do is to start slow and gentle, and I am never afraid to ask for further guidance. Which is good because some women don't even care much for oral (so why prolong it). That seems to work well. I like to transition to intercourse fairly soon, which seems to be fine with all the ladies I've been with. So, in summary, "oral" is really not a big part of my sex life. There is one situation in which I really like to do oral to a woman, and that is if I really like her body (sometimes I can like a woman a lot, even sexually, but not her body per se). If I find her body very attractive, there is this sort of animal feeling that gets into me and I desperately want to lick her down there. Go figure. By they way, thanks for your comment about preferring manual to oral. I should explore the manual option more in the future. That's something I have neglected, I must admit.

not for me frank........don't care for spinning or rotating ;)

PG