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TOPIC: Double Standard on the Ask Before Touching Rule
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Well, its unanimous. It's a well established double standard indeed. Whats funny, if I did half the things to women that some women did to me, I'd have been arrested years ago. LOL.

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I would expect nothing less from someone as classy (and sexy) as you.

;^D

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And you would have every reason to freak. Men have been conditioned to ask, women have been encouraged (by lack of resistance) to just assume it's ok.

This has also been addressed in the context of women groping other women. Again, it is NOT ok to touch without asking first but most don't object so the message isn't as consistent to women as it is to men.

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Great question and while it is a double standard, it is consistently reinforced by how we guys react. I have been in a similar situation and I will admit, I did not object or ask her to stop. Let's face it, if the woman is attractive I am not going to say no thanks..

But I would still like to think they would (or should) ask first.

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---------My question is directed at the guys - would you have reacted the same way as Mr. Double Blow-Job or would you have gotten pissed that some random woman was touching you?-----

Please! There's always been a double standard with this kind of thing. Women can touchy-feely men all they want and very rarely catch any flak over it. If you had started rubbing your hands or dick on Ms. Felatio, however, she quite possibly may have slapped you or the guy receiving might have objected.

Would I have reacted well to being rubbed by the woman? Sure. It the situation were reversed, wouldn't you have welcomed it?

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