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TOPIC: Delaying the inevitable
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Many variations on this theme.
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The extended pleasure condom worked great for us and my going down on her when we first start gets her most of the way there too. Also, when we do play I encourage her to enjoy more than one guy- which also works great. She gets variety and I get to see her taking on two cocks at once. Sweeeet.
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If she hasn't cum by the time you have, go down on her immediately after you cum. Many women love the progression of oral attention after penetration.

If you have a hangup about licking a just fucked pussy then vary your fucking. Slow down when close to cumming, switch positions, allow the intensity to subside. Amazing orgasms happen this way.

Some women rarely cum through fucking alone. Add fingers and mouth to her pussy, don't forget to kiss her, and find what inspires her orgasm.
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A technique that works for my husband is with holding. I guess some would call orgasm denial. He has learned his "almost there" point. He will stop thrusting and his cock will throb an orgasm without cumming. He can do this self control several times before ejaculating. It makes me even more excited and he gets harder and bigger as it goes on. His cum is very intense when it does happen.
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use a desensitizer.
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Either any of the wonderful methods listed below or try the bait and switch method...fuck till you think your going to blow, then switch to oral, oral and a toy on her or whatever variation till you subside and switch back again to fucking.
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Think Kitty litter..spark plugs.. joan rivers... anything besides how good it feels..lol..
I know it sounds crazy.. but kitty litter is my favoret. lol.. an it works for me.
Just something to take your mind off the inevitable.. :)
Just dont yell out jesus kitty litter.. lol..
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Two words that may help you delay the inevitable...Rosie O'Donnell :)

Am I the only one who has "Gonna Fly Now" running through my head after reading Uriah's response?

All kidding aside, another idea that may help is to get some release with your wife prior to attending your next house party...taking the edge off may settle you down a little.
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Practice.
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2inSOMD-

I strongly recommend that you commence regular Kegels as a way to improve your control. Squeeze the muscle that you use to stop your urine flow. Do that 10-15 times. Rest and repeat for 3 or 4 sets. Another exercise that I do is place a wet rag over my erection and lift the rag with my cock 10-15 times, and again do several sets.

After a few weeks of regular and consistent exercise, you should notice greater control over your orgasm.
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