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TOPIC: Couples and attraction
Created by: clearsthroat
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When you are in love with a woman I understand more flaws are overlooked than if you are with a one-night stand or a swinging situation, but when you are in a solid relationship with someone you love, do you think she is the most beaustiful person in the WHOLE world?

Do you really think that your spouse is more attractive than say Pamela Anderson (in her younger years), Carmen Electra, Anna Kournikova, Angelina Jolie, Jessica Alba, Jenna Jameson Et cetera et cetera? Or is this just waht men tell their significant others to make them feel secure in the relationship?

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beauty is an attirbute of spirit, not a flawed measure of outward appearance

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amazing isnt it? when the emphasis went from class to trash?

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i can see ur point but as someone who "crosses" somewhat the general gap i can tell u that there is a good chance that most woman under the age of 27 don't know who raquel welch and some of the others u mentioned lare..... let alone remember when they were "hot". i know my better half does not. maybe the girls mentioned in the post aren't classic beauties but carmen electra is at least sexxy no? as for jenna, she is problably the most famous porn star in the last 10 years but i would take good ole ginger lynn over her any day!!

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I have had the pleasure of being married to the same woman for 24 years ad she turns me on more than any other. I am sure neither of us looks like a twenty year old any more, but I have not seen one I would like to trade her in for. I do look at other women as often as possible and I do wonder what playing would be like with most of them, but there is something about B that out classes all others at least IMHO. I am sure some of you men would not give her a second look, but that would be your loss. The package may not be as tight as it once was and there is a dusting of snow on the roof, but under the wrapper there is a fire in the furnace that can and does warm my soul more than any other ever could.

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We have been in the lifestyle for over 10 years and there is no woman that turns me on like my wife. There have been a few I really liked but that is the exception and not the rule. I'm very picky. I like petite women like my wife and if they aren't, I'd rather pass. Many times we go to house parties and I just watch because I don't care for the women that are present. It's not that they aren't attractive. Over the years we have found that we prefer mmf 3somes above couples. We just have to agree on one person, not two. It works for us.

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Let's see, an honest comparison, this would sound less like I was bragging about my wife if the proposed list was not so full of skanky and nasty women.

Carmen Electra Minus Makeup=Crack Ho look Anna Kournikova = I am not into women that look underage Angelina Jolie=She was equally hot as my wife BEFORE the plastic work from hell Jessica Alba= Smoking and putting the two of them in my head at once makes me fall over Jenna Jameson= Which one, the nasty babyfat style starter with the sloppy boobies and bad teeth, or the overtanned, leathery, plastic'ed to death one? Regardless my wife wins.

With that said, there is not a single woman on the planet I lust for more than my wife. Other than my wife I have never had a woman who felt as good in my hands, pressed against me, never found one who made my skin tingle and no one else has ever had the ability to utterly own me with one touch. But that does not mean that other women are not desirable, she and I both enjoy women, but wow, the difference between her and any other? It is near infinite.

This is rather silly anyways, once a woman crosses a line into damn fine, anything else is just quibbling. I am just lucky that she is on the damn fine side of that line.

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mmmmmm anna kournakova!! haha... for some reason my love for anna always bothers my better lookin half (halina)... maybe that is because they are both russian.

i would agree with scorp in that personality really does makes the attraction sooo much more powerful. but as for pure attraction we (as a couple) always discuss who's hot or who's not but mostly i would say that im very lucky in that sweet halina kicks ass over most!!!!!! that must mean i have a great personality!!!

btw, jenna jamieson has hit the wall ;-)

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I think that as love grows and changes the feelings you have for that person mature. I cannot sit here and honestly tell you that I look like a model. I look like a 34 year old woman who has birthed 3 children, got drunk on many occasions, I laugh alot...and I'm glad to be 34 years old. Jay doesn't look like Tom Cruise, but to me he is the best looking guy out there. To think that a woman you married at 18 like Jay did me, is going to look 18 until her death is crazy. I tell you though. I don't have the tiny waist I had at 18, but at 18 I didn't have the curves I have now. So, I guess you give and take. shelly


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Here2...EXACTLY! Ditto! Same same.

Nothing more to say...

-Tig

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WM, You made an excellent point. You seem to understand alot that some guys don't or they just don't want to admit to it. There are guys that I am attracted to physically, but I have to say that my husband is a very handsome man inside and outside. I may have said it somewhere before, but I knew from the moment I saw him we would be together forever.

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