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It all boils down to personal preference or choices, not labels. Just because a women is hetro is no excuse for a male or a female just to go down on her without her knowledge and approval. I am straight, had that happened to me someone would take a trip to the hospital. Taking those kind of liberties without some form of communication that it is acceptable is bullshit.

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A blowjob is a blowjob. Or is it?

In my opinion, you enjoying a blowjob from a man doesn't make you bi, merely a fan of blowjobs (if your pleasure is derived from the sensation rather than the visual). If it was mainly from the visual, and wasn't primarily the taboo aspect that got you going, you may need to reevaluate whether or not you consider yourself Bi. Don't let anyone make that decision for you.

The previous poster is correct though; there are some out there who would consider you Bi after any MM contact, and would write you off as a play partner because of that fact. (not trying to start an argument here, as everyone has a right to have their own preferences).

As for whether or not that would be acceptable behavior, I'm not quite sure.

Tonight, we will be at a club where, for the first time since we started swinging, an openly bi guy will be there (openly meaning his profile states it explicitly), so I am interested to see how he behaves. With our limited experience and the verboten aspect of MM play in our little microcosm of the Lifestyle, I would have to say (in your example) him just going for it like that would not be normally accepted, and possibly dangerous should the receiver be the slightest bit homophobic. Then again, for some people the LS is about exploring ones sexuality, so I could see it being tolerated in some circles (assuming there was no prior conversation that led anyone to think it was on the table of play options).

I Guess I would expect people to treat intentional MM contact alot like anal; you better make sure everyone is on board before you try and put something somewhere.

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Although I have no objection to what 2 consenting adult do I have no desire to watch it myself . I actually know some one who gets paid to do gay porn and I would avoid watching it at all costs.......just isn't my thing.

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bradswva

According to some people, because you have had MM contact, you are now officially bi and a risk to anyone you play with. There is no going back to straight and these same people will call you a liar because you haven't changed your profile to bi.

I think the original post asked if women enjoyed watching. What was your partner's reaction? Would you accept it again? If it works for you and your playmates enjoy yourselves at whatever level is comfortable to you.

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I'm straight and she is bi-accepting. The last time we did a MFM the guy started going down on me while I was eating her pussy. I didn't stop him and it felt pretty good. Is this acceptable practice in MFM situations? I don't want to do it, but I wasn't turned off by receiving.

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I have a Bi-female play partner, That I loaned a video to of guy on guy, And sshe will not let me have it back! She tells me that when she starts watching it, She is Squirting in about 5 mins. She gets so hot! I think there is a lot more woman and couples out there, That get turned on by it! I have the best of both worlds, And am loving Life!

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I don't know any statistics on the matter but I dated a "straight" girl that loved man on man porn. Does nothing for me, but I would buy her videos AND pop them in the player...WOW .. was she HOT TO TROT after a few minutes of the video. The sexiest thing I felt about her was that she was "out of the closet" as you say Tony and enjoying the freedom. I have no problem with anyone's sexual orientation... but I will say this .. I thought nothing was worse than standing at a counter buying douche and tampons ..I was wrong. Ha!

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cplo he was talking about only bisexual woman not society in general. I would seriously like to know where he found these statistics. Society in general does not approve of swingers nor do they of any bisexual activity be it male on male or female on female. A bunch of party poopers if you ask me.

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Have watched, attended bi male meetings where women of bi men were anywhere from ok to really hot watching..personally doesnt turn me on doesnt turn me off. Not something that holds my attention. But, not grossed out by it actually dont give it much thought.

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I can only speak for my wife and the female half of a couple we've been with for a long time. Both of the women think it's hot watching us two men having fun together. Of course we reap the benefits when they join in.

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