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TOPIC: Aging and the ability to cum
Created by: kneadsome
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I will be 57 in a few weeks and curious if age has any effect on one's ability to cum? In the last 3 or 4 years I have noticed that I can't always get off once, much less twice. Have never in my life had any issues getting and staying horny for long periods, including rock hard erections. I'm in decent shape but had a heart attack 6 years ago and am on various daily meds for blood pressure, cholesterol, thinners, etc. It's likely, due to certain observable conditions, that I have low T levels. If that's the case, and I could improve that through treatment, wouild that help with the cum issue? Thanks for your helpful comments.

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I really don't mind it if a man doesn't come like when he was younger. I prefer less cum, especially in my mouth. As long as we're both enjoying ourselves it's all good. Nice silky fingers, a wet tongue, hard cock...yea!

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Hot ...I can tell you this, You are wrong, Yes I am an older male, as a male 50 plus, or 60 plus have no problem getting it up or hard and yes I am an sm and yes I do not cum as much as I did in my younger years, but still do cum. the problem you are talking about has to do with pills and food older and younger males take. So do not give the older guys the boot until you been with us sexy older guys, we are not done yet, we are better than the younger ones, I am ,what about you. Are you better than the younger ones. Hot I can say this, it is ALL about ones HEATH not age.

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I have ED issues and am relying on Cialis. Bu am considering a pump, because I have problem keeping it hard. My ability to cum is also a problem. I do feel like I do, but nothing comes out. Doc says it is going back up the Urethra. Wife says she can taste some occasionally.

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Welcome to old age, it happens to every one, the one thing that everyone on this site will have to deal with it some day

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My honeybunny is 67 and has no problem with an erection or cumming and that makes me HAPPY, HAPPY, HAPPY.

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Hot: Medical conditions like prostate cancer aside, I think there is something in the food that's causing a lot of this dysfunction.

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You know what's really fucked up?? Now that I, wife, am thru menopause; have the wettest pussy around! And now the old dudes my age can't 1) get it up 2) stay hard once it's up 3)can't cum once it's up So, anyone ask WHY we older women turn to SM instead of older couples? Enough Said.

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kneadsome, like2play2,

Ditto. Well said.

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"... The great feeling continues for me for a half hour or so and then begins to numb slightly, never becoming unpleasant, but gets to a point where there's not enough sensation to get me off. The longer I go the less sensation I have, to the point where there's no possiblility of cumming..."

Yup, I've had that experience, too, and it seems to occur more often as I age. Sometimes I reach a peak of sensation that feels like I'm close to cumming but then it doesn't happen. After that peak has passed I stay hard but the pleasurable sensations gradually diminish to the point where I know there is no possibility of cumming. It seems to be not dependent on tpartner or situation (happens with a given partner on occasion but most times not) and I can always cum when I stimulate myself. I'm mystified. Low T? In any case, when that happens I still enjoy sex and my partners get the benefit of me being able to perform longer but they don't get the enjoyment of making me cum and we all love to give our partners that :-).

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Thanks for the replies. To reiterate: I don't have ED issues, on the contrary, I can get a boner at will, and keep if for what seems like forever. My partner loves it because she can get off over and over and over. The great feeling continues for me for a half hour or so and then begins to numb slightly, never becoming unpleasant, but gets to a point where there's not enough sensation to get me off. The longer I go the less sensation I have, to the point where there's no possiblility of cumming. This may not be a low T issue, does anyone have any ideas, or have any of you guys experienced anything like this? If so, please chime in.

Many years ago I had a girlfriend who insisted I jack off before our date so I could last longer when we had sex. This is sort of like that, only I didn't jack off, just takes longer to cum, if at all.

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