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"Swinging can light a fire, but it can also burn down the house", a quote from a wiser swinger then I. You have to start somewhere and test the water. We gladly invest time and effort in noobie couples because we we remember our beginning days. In fact, at many of our house parties there would be noobs, invited to come along and test to see if the experience starts a fire of passion as it does for us or whether that fire threatens to destroy the special that they have.

Cut ppl some slack.

Sarnia Canada
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I'm not sucking your dick if I already know I wouldn't have sex with you....just saying. If I am not comfortable enough ,if I don't trust you enough or am unsure of just how "attracted" I am ,you can suck your own cock until I decide. While we don't have intercourse with everyone potentially with based on circumstances, timing or compatibility we will not venture beyond hi how are you with soft swap couples. To each their own but we can turn each other on and have sex , I don't need to give you a blow job so I can get all hot and bothered for Mr Sav. Full swap must at least be an option before hand. Just how we roll.

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Thanks WNC....nice to feel welcome!

Parsippany NJ
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nj, the way you say it, it sounds lovely. You shouldn't have trouble finding others who feel the same. For many here, there's more appeal in folks who aren't yet sure how far they'll go. Each encounter is literally an adventure into unknown territory.

No point in pretending you're "hard core" when you're not. We find people kind of scary who say they just want to cut through the feeling-out and get to their fave scenario.

And welcome to the forums.

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This sounds interesting. We are finding out way as newbies. We met a man and decided that while both of us were willing to have a 3some with a man, neither of us really wanted to after meeting him(no fault of his). But we still like the idea of exploring out boundaries and having some fun.

So the way it works as I see it, is we meet a couple see if we are all comfortable and then meet in a bed and just sort of overlap a little....Is this difficult to find people to do this or is it failrly common?

Sorry if I'm hijacking a thread!

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"Why bother" would be valid point if this lifestyle were only about intercourse. But it isn't.

We started as a soft couple because we were exploring this wonderful hobby and weren't sure just how far we could go with it. We had some incredibly erotic encounters.... and soft swap encounters are still just fine as far as we're concerned, even though we've moved on to full swap too.

Of course, if you're gonna do soft... it helps if your spouse is the best fuck you've ever had.

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Welcome to the forums, newtothescene! You sound like the kind of woman who will likely fit in here quite well - intelligent, sex-positive, well spoken, etc., and fun. Keep posting and reading! There are a lot of gems in these threads.

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For me, it's where I am sure I am comfortable vs what I am open to exploring. Those click if you want this box does not allow us to be very clear there.

I hate the idea of leading someone on. In our profile, we have that we are interested in soft swap and well soft other things too. ;) More will well require more; the right mood, the right fit, some communication and some trust.

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We have had a few soft swap encounters only and they were all fun. But it of course depends on your definition of soft swap. For us it is more than just watching. SOft swap in our book is basically anything but penetration with the others, just between own partners. So in between watching and penetration there is a whole spectrum of fun things to do like cunnilingus, fingering, jerking off, blowjobs (with or without swallowing), touching, feeling, nipple play etc...

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We think a lot of the confusion comes from the preferences folks list in their profiles. For example if you're SOft Swap how can you list yourself as "Wild" or (looking at it from the other perspective) if you're Full Swap how can you be "Tame"? "In the condominium of life: one person's ceiling is another person's floor"

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