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TOPIC: soft swap vs Full Swap
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We know to each his own but we really dont get what soft swap is all about ??
I mean why bother ? There's a new thing out called a porn movie right. maybe soft swap is something else ? But we stilll have no idea why anyone would go through all this "trouble" JUST to watch. |
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Voyeurism and exhibitionism carry their own weight in arousing everyone in the group, so watching or soft swapping has it's own benefits.
Some of us aren't quite ready to go "all the way," and soft swapping is a good way to ease into that. I liked the comment, (paraphrased) "First time soft swap, usually ready to go all the way second time!" because it's true. Just like some of us didn't sleep with a date on the first night out, so too we don't sleep together on our first couple date! :) |
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Soft swap to us consists of just about everything except intercourse. Some couples are new and don't want to go all in the first time so to ease them into it we allow touching, breast sucking, dick stroking. Kissing, a little oral. The next time we get together they usually are willing to go all the way. The worst thing that can happen is we don't swap and have same room sex and watch each other. We were a full swap couple from the beginning but we never have second the first meeting. NEVER! We were not against a small sampling of the goods if we knew we were compatible and sex was going to happen.
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Fairburn GA |
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We strongly prefer full swap, hard to stop once you get going, but to each their own. Only a couple times we wound up doing soft swap & that was because the other guy had performance issues & Tom had to do double duty. He didn't complain, LOL!
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We never know until we have met you.
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Flat Rock NC |
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We've been mild to wild, soft to full, couples and group, it's all fun. We respect others desires and we'll play in most any scenario if we click.
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Painesville OH |
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SB, you were such a bad influence on me, that I actually removed "Moderate" from my profile recently. :)
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Panama City Beach FL |
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Tried it ONCE since starting and realized it's just like making out in the back seat of the car only as adults! Made no sense whatsoever. If you're going to get us horny and wet, you're going to have to f*ck us.
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Trophy Club TX |
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Can't see the point in "soft swap", anyway...For us, anything "soft" turns to "full" fairly quickly...lol
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Tempe AZ |
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Our profile options clearly say only "WILD"
Content states clearly we like "FULL SWAP" So as a couple, we've yet to encounter any couples wanting to only play soft swap, I guess if any were indeed 'soft swap', then we were a bad influence. |
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I'll take that to mean you didn't mean make it sound like the rest of us full swappers are all indiscriminate lol.
In all our years of swinging we've never encountered anything we perceived as drama, overall we've had incredible encounters with awesome people. Our screening process must be working lol Mrs Sav |
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